The beauty and utter joy of being with God will flush out everything else.
Even your conscience? Or, as Katzpur said, your compassion?
Edit: Oops, you already responded to this:
Not a lack of compassion, just an extreme excess of joyfulness. Perhaps I worded it incorrectly.
I believe that when we get to Heaven, we'll be so happy that we're with God, that we'll "forget" in a sense that we have loved ones in Hell. Maybe that is a wrong view, but it is what I've always thought.
I get what you're saying, but I disagree. IMO, forgetting that we have loved ones in hell
does indicate a loss of compassion...
I'll give another example. Not exactly adequate, but hey. A few summers ago I was separated from the same loved one I mentioned earlier for a period of 10.5 weeks (doesn't sound very long, but it sure felt like it). I was visiting a place I love very much, where I have friends and family and it's so peaceful and beautiful. Yet despite the fact that I was so happy there, I could not be truly happy without him there. This is, of course, a different scenario than Heaven/Hell; I knew I would see him again and I knew he wasn't suffering (which I expect would increase my desire to see him in the case of Heaven), and, to be fair, [presumably] the joy of this place is nothing compared to Heaven. Yet still...even if I was in Heaven, I think I would have an
ethical duty to be upset about the fact that people I love, good people, were suffering in Hell.
At any rate, I won't worry too much. If conservative Christians are right, this loved one will be saved and I'll be the one in Hell.
When my wife passed away, several people told me that "she's in a better place now". I always wondered how people could think she was in a better place if she was no longer with her friends and family. If anything she probably feels like she's in hell. Heaven can only be a wonderful place if everyone you loved on Earth is there.
I'm sorry to hear about it
I think that actually kind of goes with the example I gave just a moment ago...assuming Heaven exists and she's there (not implying that she's in hell - I don't believe that at all - I'm simply allowing for the possibility of reincarnation) it probably doesn't truly feel like Heaven to her. But I don't think it would feel like hell...I think she'd probably just be very impatient to be with all of her loved ones again.
Although, as I was thinking about this...a truly compassionate person wouldn't
really feel like they were in Heaven until
everyone was. In other words, they'd get to Heaven...wait for their friends, family, loved ones...then they'd remember an acquaintance and say, hm, I hope
he gets to come here...and then they'd remember all the people they disliked and say, gee, they really weren't so bad, I hope they make it...and then they'd remember that they have descendants and hope they all make it, too...pretty soon they wouldn't be satisfied until everyone was in Heaven.
At least, that seems like the compassionate thing to me. And God is presumably far more compassionate than any of us. So maybe God won't rest until we're
all saved...
Or maybe I'm just babbling