I know how you feel, different problem same results, was in a bad car wreck, that was not my fault, injury's keep me from working, creditors don't really care they just want the money, at this point I really dont know what I'll do, not really anything I can do, trying to get help through other channels which dont seem to be working out, taking it one day at a time, I wish you health, and let you know you are not alone.
I'm sorry that you're going through that. Life really sucks sometimes. I wish you all the best.
As for me, I have mental health issues that keep me from working and I can barely function. I live with my mom who is in her 60s and she works full time but doesn't make enough money to keep us afloat. We don't really have friends or family to help us. Public assistance or charity won't help us when it comes to rent, either. We were in this situation a few months ago (hence this thread) where we were $2,000 behind in rent but a stranger helped us out at the last minute. I thought things were okay.
We pay the rent in installments since we can't afford to pay it all on the 1st of every month. It's late, but it does get paid. Now, all of a sudden, the landlord says he won't accept the rent in payments anymore and he wants all the back rent now. That's $875. Of course, we don't have that money. Then there's October's rent that's due on the 1st, but I guess the back rent is more pressing.
There's been a lot of miscommunication. We usually talk to the property manager and give the rent to him. But he blocked his mail slot and we weren't able to get ahold of him. He obviously doesn't like us. He said that the landlord will take payments but about 2 weeks ago, the landlord told my mom that he said no such thing and he wants all the money now. So I'm really angry over this.
I've made a couple of posts on cyber begging sites, even. Haven't heard anything from that. My mom tried to get help from a person she knows but that person didn't call us back after telling us to call her, so the answer there is "no". My mom called my sister a couple days ago but my sister is messed up in the head and went off on my mom. So that just made things worse. All my mom wanted was some comfort and support.
So I have no idea what to do. I have severe depression and anxiety and now I'm stuck with my mom (she's off all week), having to deal with her depression and anxiety and her threats of suicide. I'm sick of it. I'm sick not being in control of my life.