Yeah, I guess that may be what it is. What I've noticed is that many people seem obsessed over the word "insurrection." Some people are upset because others are calling it an "insurrection," and there are also those who are upset because others refuse to see it as an "insurrection." Why does that even matter, as long as the criminals involved are charged and punished with some sort of offense?
Personally, I think "insurrection" might be an exaggeration or overstatement, especially since the military had already previously stated that they would follow the Constitution, abide by the court rulings, and uphold the rule of law. The other branches and apparatus of the government remained intact and unthreatened, and they had more than enough force at their disposal to utterly crush whatever motley crew had gathered at the Capitol. The military was right there and all over the Capitol and outlying buildings the next day. The protesters, rioters, insurrectionists (whatever you want to call them) all left and flew home, many of whom weren't arrested until weeks or months later. Not exactly the surrender at Appomattox C.H., eh?
It might have been different if Trump had some sort of positive control over the military (where they'd be loyal to him personally and not the Constitution), but he obviously did not. Once that fact was established, then I knew (and everyone else should have known) that there was absolutely zero chance of any coup or insurrection or overthrow of the government.
Even if we assume the worst case scenario at the Capitol, the government would still remain intact. Even if every member of Congress had been killed, the military still would have gone in and killed/captured the insurrectionists. Then, each state government would make emergency appointments for their replacement senators and representatives and send them out to Washington the next day. The certification of the election would still have happened, just a day later.