Did you understand the part where I said our species (homo circularis rationatio) can not directly experience its own consciousness therefore might never understand it?
No.
I don't know what you mean by
homo circularis rationatio or consciousness. The former has no meaning to me at all, and the latter refers to the self-evident state of being at least implicitly aware of a relationship between self and other, between here and there, and between now and then, experienced as a parade of phenomena in a theater of sorts with one unseen viewer. Consciousness appears to be a fluctuating epiphenomenon of brains, that is, it appears to be produced by brains and varies between wakefulness and unconscious states. It's substance, scale, and location are intractable problems to date.
That was a good example of clear writing. You may not agree with it, and you may have more questions, but I'll bet you understand it. And it's a good place for you to start doing something similar. Change the parts you don't like and explain why you recommend that change, and explicitly agree with the parts you do like, and then I will have an idea of what YOU mean by that word whereas presently, I don't. What I described doesn't appear to happen in most living things - just sufficiently complex animals - but whatever that word means to you is found in EVERY living thing. See if you can reconcile those.
A dust mite understands consciousness better than Aristotle did
I don't understand that, and can't come up with any meanings for those words that makes them sensible. Maybe if "dust mite" is slang for ancient Greek philosopher and Aristotle is the name of an acarid, then the sentence becomes meaningful, but your claim as written and commonly understood is absurd.
you must reject the silly notion that "I think therefore I am"
Why? And how? That intuition is compelling and irresistible, and also quite useful.
It is impossible to understand consciousness using your existing models so of course you don't understand.
I think I understand consciousness about as well any lay person in 2023, and I really doubt that you have any insights to share there. You've provided none so far, although I have.
Then you reject its characteristics as fast as you read what I write.
You've provided no characteristic of consciousness apart from saying that it exists in all life without saying what it is you claim exists.
We each essentially become a new species as we acquire language
I don't understand that, either. Man did break off from the other great apes in large part due to the acquisition of language, but human beings without language remain (genus) Homo (species) sapiens.
Two year olds can't think because only modern language precipitates thinking.
You must mean thinking in language. That's only part of the human spectrum of thought. Emotions speak to us in a prelinguistic "language."
If you begin constructing a model of this I can fill it in. If you just reject it out of hand then you will not understand me.
My model of consciousness is the one I just described. I don't expect to ever understand you, because I don't expect you ever to engage with me. Our conversations will always and ever be like this one, where I write responsively to you and you repeat what you've already claimed and been told that it is wrong or too vague to answer. How do I know that? I'm an empiricist. I collect evidence and analyze it. There isn't even a scintilla of acknowledgement from you about what I am telling you. Nothing I write will impact your opinions or your posting behavior. I could put a gun to your head and demand that you address what is written about exploring new ways, and you would start talking about Homo omniscience or gradual change or how wrong Darwin was. I'd say prove me wrong, but you would ignore that, too.
In order to be "Evolution" females would have to continually demand ever brighter and showier mates.
I also don't understand what that intends to mean. In order to be (biological) evolution, there would need to be change in the allelic frequencies in a population's gene pool.
if there is some purpose to life it is to become the same thing as reality itself.
Once again, what could you possibly mean? Your writing is opaque and cryptic. Don't expect to be understood until you improve that. I could tell you how, but you wouldn't acknowledge seeing it much less want to explore or discuss it, so I won't.