Whew, Sexual lust is condemned in the Bible.. Homosexuality is condemned in the Bible, OT and NT as an act, not a state of mind. I am not "against" homosexuality in general I have no responsibility to judge, just in the church, a believer can not be a practicing homosexual and be a church member. If there is a sexual act associated with your love of someone of the same sex, whatever the mindset, it is not compatible with Christianity.
Thats really sad for christian homosexuals, though. A lot of gay/lesbian/bi christians try to change themselves, thinking that when god sees them with their husband or wife, he sees trash.
Thr mindset of a heterosexual couple and homosexual couple in holy matrimony are no different.
Its the christian god that sees sin in one couples heart and blessings in the other.
I never liked the christian stance on interpreting how god judges a couples heart based on what they read.
Its better to ask the couple, accept they have a relationship with god "and" their partner, and if god sees trash in their actions thats on god.
I just wish some christians would be more civil about a homosexual couples hearts. They dont have to agree but they dont have to condomn a homosexual just because he is one rather than be against All people-straight/gay/bi-who sin.
I have been lesbian for almost twenty yeara before my first crush ans two more years before my first girlfriend (real girlfriend not like people in scripture who mated in lust). Im still lesbian and I havent dated in I dont know how long.
Just by saying "I am lesbian" and if I coupled that with "I am christian" makes peoples heads turn.
And I did nothing.
We need to be careful with defining a person by what they read. Ask them. They may not be able to physically love their mate as christians, but many gay/lesbian/bi christia. couples have been together and "marred" for years in god's grace.
But Im not a christian and I dont believe in "a higher power/s" that require my worship. I have a interrelationship with my ancestors and spirits so I can say no. That doesnt mean I am direspecting them, it just means we are all different and all have our ways of expressing love etc with each other.
Pagans define their gods as not being superior over others but have their own personalities.
The spirits have their own personalities though are not worshiped as deities.
Ancestors are like us with differing opinions.
My point is in these types of views, "god" (place holder) is a friend not someone to obey. If the christian god was a friend, then he would appreciate his creation worships him in different ways and as skittles come in different colors.
Likd a friend, he would express disagreements. As a friend, he would accept his friend even if He disagrees.