"Believe in me and do what I say or face eternal punishment" isn't really a choice.
Of course its a choice.
If a man is holding a gun to my head telling me to give him all my money or he'll kill me, am I really making a choice to give him my money? I don't think so.
Arent you? Are you saying that at that moment you are unable to make a choice? Can you choose not to give him the money? Of course you can. He might kill you but you can make that choice can you not?
My decision to kill or not kill another person isn't comparable to what I'm saying, imo.
How about the traffic law, would that be a nicer choice selection? The point is, whether you like it or not, whether you think its fair or not, you didnt make up the rules. It is what it is. You can kick and scream all you want but it doesnt change the law.
I guess the difference is, I wouldn't treat my children the way the Christian god treats his. I wouldn't lock my kids in the basement for their entire lives because they didn't do what I said.
And so how does the Christian God treat His children? Im one of his children. Do you care to tell me how He treats me?
What exactly has your god had to sacrifice for anyone?
He left His heavenly place, was born a human being, was tortured, and beaten beyond recognition and was nailed to a cross. At the time, it was the most cruel, horrifying, agonizing and humiliating death know to exsist. And he sacrificed himself in that way because he loved you and knew that it was the only way, the shedding of his blood was the only payment for our sin that would satisfy the Father. Thats what he sacrificed for you and everyone! There is your answer.
Sorry, but I think if someone creates infinite suffering, he/she/it should be held accountable for it.