chevron1
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It's not about choice....it's about love. Love sees with eyes, or least real true love, with eyes that don't see gender or whatever "apparatus" one comes equipped with. And in fact, sex is a small part of real love which after 50 or so years becomes even less so. So your point would be.....what? That I can't make up my mind? Nothing could be further from the truth.
it's not about love; its about versatility and social pressure, because if you are gay, then you don't want to date other than men. however if you only date men, now social pressure says that you are not generous with our love. it's all the same. in san francisco, all the gay clubs are now becoming coed. there is no more cruising or very little cruising and although there is a gay community that comes out on gay pride, i don't see it much any other time. and i spend lots of time on the street looking for it.
it's as though the religious right won after all. that's why there is all these hidden options for gay therapy. gay men are slowly herded into the bisex mentality. prove to me otherwise.
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