Homosexuality is actually common when it comes to other animals as well. It has nothing to do with our changed living condition.
But, do they choose a mate and retain their homosexuality for the long haul?
That does not mean homosexuality is unnatural.
I've read and seen videos on a particular species of wasp, the male members of which, just after having sex with a female mate, will do the
female dance of their kind that shows readiness/willingness to pro-create so that he can attract the attention of any nearby males, who will assail him and attempt to have sex with him. It is said that he does this so that these other males leave the true female alone, and so his seed will be the most likely to reach the egg of the female. The wasp knows that the copulation occurring with the other male is not natural, and will therefore yield no results. That is exactly why he does it.
Which also means it would be a naturally occuring way for nature to "trim the population".
Ahh... but it would only be a way to "trim the population" because it does not produce more individuals of our kind - because the parts don't jive according to
nature. So, in a way, a naturally occurring method of defying the natural use of our reproductive organs. Much like the wasp mentioned above.
So now free will and the ability to choose is unnatural? Besides, homosexuality is not a matter of choice.
I never said it was a matter of choice. Neither are things like diabetes... down syndrome... conjoined twins... etc. etc. etc. But it doesn't make those things good for humanity as a species. And the natural order would have that a species propagate to the greatest of it's potential.
That is what we all strive for even if we don't know it. And
that is nature. We choose our mates based on a level of attraction... it is a sub-conscious effort to make sure that our seed creates the best possible combination and produces fruitful off-spring. For goodness sake, why do you think even gay people have sex?? It is because of their in-born desire to procreate. The fact that it is pleasurable is only a foot-note at the base of a huge instinct to reproduce more members of the species. But, the fact that homosexual reproduction hits a brick wall in that arena is the only point I am trying to make. Despite any "natural" tendency toward homosexual behavior, they will never "naturally" be able to achieve what their bodies are telling them they want.
I was trying to refrain from making this point also, because it is somewhat crude, and will probably offend. But an anus was not built for entry by a penis... or entry by anything, let's be honest. There are no reproductive organs within the rectum, or in the mouth. Mouth to penis, and mouth to vagina intercourse are not the natural form. They are obviously things that are possible... but it's certainly not the purpose either instrument was designed/evolved for. You can say all you want that homosexuality doesn't always involve sex. But to a greater degree than not, I would say that it does. Especially in men, who still have the higher sex-drive... the in-born desire fueled by the instinct to procreate. I mean, seriously, what percentage of homosexuals do you honestly think
aren't having sex?
The sad thing is, you all understand perfectly what I am getting at.