I also love my mother and sister dearly, but the love I have for my wife is a different sort of love from that. Same thing for a same-sex couple.Response: It's a sin if you are a homosexual and you are having sex. Sex between two people of the same sex is lust. Surely, two people of the same sex can love each other. I love my father and brothers dearly. However, sex between two people of the same gender is an act of lust, not love.
Just as your love for your wife (assuming you're married) is different from your love for your mother or sisters (if you have sisters), the love of a gay man for his partner is different from the love he has for his father or brothers.
It seems that you're committing a logical fallacy here. Saying "I have created wives for you men" is not the same thing as saying "all women are intended to be wives for men".Response: The qur'an does not speak directly about lesbianism. However, in ch.30: 21,22 it says:
"And of His Signs is that He has created wives for you from among yourselves that you may find peace in them, and He has put love and tenderness between you. In that, surely, are signs for a people who reflect".
The "you" referred to in the verse are men. Allah reveals the verse to Muhammad and speaks directly to the men because men are to be the protectors of women. Therefore, the verse is speaking of the loving marriage between man and woman and condemns the act of lust between the same sex, as demonstrated in ch.7:81, ch.29:28,29 and ch. 26:165 when he punishes the people of Lut who were homosexuals.
Also, the passage you quoted says nothing at all about "the act of lust between the same sex".