Do you need a list of the events of the past century? I could cite a few instances, but regardless, whatever antagonism exists between Russia and the United States was initiated by the US government.
Merely listing events that you believe support your
view won't be convincing. Instead, offer analysis
why those events mean what they do to you.
All it would have taken was a simple statement by NATO: "We will not allow Ukraine to join NATO." How difficult is that? If they had done that, Ukraine would not be under attack right now.
I don't know if that would've done the job.
I'm a fan of diplomatic solutions to hostilities though.
I also like a hands off approach....I'm willing to let
horrible tyrants oppress their populace. Sure, it's
letting evil exist...but I don't trust our leaders' wisdom
to violently fix other countries' problems.
We've a straightforward problem. Russia invaded
a country that wasn't attacking them, & had even
disarmed in order to appease Russia. This isn't
justified by NATO actions in Lybia, USA invading
Iraq, or USA invading Afghanistan. Those events
ended without conquest. Moreover, they even
pointed to the west's being rather
incapable of &/or
uninterested in conquest. Putin ordered the invasion
of Ukraine after all those wars ended, & NATO was
cutting defense measures.