Why don't you post his comments instead of just mine, out of context, and what they were in response to? You can have the last word if you like.
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And your tone with Vrindavandas was civil, mature and polite, yes? Let us see:
Originally posted by you:
Not only do you clearly disagree and show disgust to Vrindavandas's belief that homosexuality is forbidden by Hinduism, you actively debate it and attempt to disprove it through a patronizing attitude and even imply that he is a closet homosexual.
So again I ask it is OK for you to debate and debate in a disrespectful and condescending tone, but not OK for others?
This thread has turned into a parody of itself :yes:
And your tone with Vrindavandas was civil, mature and polite, yes? Let us see:
Originally posted by you:
To be honest the above just shows an argument that got a little heated between two people. (and why bringing it up here in the first place?)
What you are doing is preaching, putting others down, lecturing and proselytizing as well as disrespecting people's sincere beliefs.
Simply put, its not cool.
It's not your job to change peoples minds about anything.
Maya
I have a personal policy regarding this, ... not that anybody cares... once an individual on a forum makes it clear that his or her way is the only way, then I just stop responding to their posts. Use a bit of will power to allow them to rant away all they want to. It certainly won't stop me from going to temple, prostrating, meditating, helping others, being hospitable etc, or engaging in helpful dialogue. Anyone whose mission in life is to convince others they are wrong just doesn't have a very all-encompassing view of the diversity of humanity.
I have a personal policy regarding this, ... not that anybody cares... once an individual on a forum makes it clear that his or her way is the only way, then I just stop responding to their posts. Use a bit of will power to allow them to rant away all they want to. It certainly won't stop me from going to temple, prostrating, meditating, helping others, being hospitable etc, or engaging in helpful dialogue. Anyone whose mission in life is to convince others they are wrong just doesn't have a very all-encompassing view of the diversity of humanity.
I could not agree more, in fact I think it's about time that the moderators are called in to overlook these threads.
Maya
last sentence is spot on!I have a personal policy regarding this, ... not that anybody cares... once an individual on a forum makes it clear that his or her way is the only way, then I just stop responding to their posts. Use a bit of will power to allow them to rant away all they want to. It certainly won't stop me from going to temple, prostrating, meditating, helping others, being hospitable etc, or engaging in helpful dialogue. Anyone whose mission in life is to convince others they are wrong just doesn't have a very all-encompassing view of the diversity of humanity.
One of my most favorite prayers in praise of Lord Vishnu composed by Adi Shankaracharya
Achyutashtakam by Adi Shankara - Sanskrit Stuti
It would appear that Shankara had no problem worshiping a god.
Aum Hari Aum!
i think youve covered it all. working on relating to this in own time. you are very articulate and well read. thank youI have already covered this. Shankara never worshiped a separate god, to him god means the Self. He uses only the language of the culture at the times, but does not mean the same thing as the people of his time meant when they worshiped gods. In Shankara's atmashaktam he clearly asserts his identity with Shiva, chitananda rupa shivoham shivoham Consciousness-bliss is my essential form, I am Shiva, I am Shiva.
Shankara was living in a time where people were obsessed with gods and goddesses and this is why Shankara felt it was his duty to reform against all of this. So what he did was he showed that bhakti was possible in Advaita as well, if you redirect all your devotion and love to ones essential nature - the Self. I also practice Bhakti as Shankara prescribed, through love and devotion to my essential self, constant rememberence and meditation on it.
Advaitins do not worship separate god/s. It is not supported by the Sruti of the Upanishads.
Of course I am going to hold my view to true, what are you expecting? It is my religion. If I start granting validity to opposing views, it means I am not secure and confident in my own views. If Shankara did not concede to opposing views, why should I? This what I meant by pointing out the Dogma of Bhakti. Advaitin Hindus like me are expected to just swallow this dogma that Bhakti in the form of worshiping a separate and almighty god is valid and OK and if I disagree with it either I am not a Hindu, or I am just a bad person. Whatever.
Of course I am going to hold my view to true, what are you expecting? It is my religion. If I start granting validity to opposing views, it means I am not secure and confident in my own views. If Shankara did not concede to opposing views, why should I? This what I meant by pointing out the Dogma of Bhakti. Advaitin Hindus like me are expected to just swallow this dogma that Bhakti in the form of worshiping a separate and almighty god is valid and OK and if I disagree with it either I am not a Hindu, or I am just a bad person. Whatever.
No one worships a Separate God, people worship the form/s they feel closest resembles how they feel God might be.
No one worships a Separate God, people worship the form/s they feel closest resembles how they feel God might be.
You feel that God can only be seen as formless.
There is room for everyone.
If you truly believe in Advaita then realize that everything is The Self, Murtis and all.
Maya
I don't think that anybody here expects others to concede to their views or to accept views that offend you. I think the OP is more concerned with debating and preaching that happens in the DIR, which is a place where debate is not allowed. The Forum is structured in such a way that there is a place for just about everything. Debating one's own religion with other followers of that religion is to happen in the Same Faith Debates area. But DIRs are for discussion purposes only. They are a 'safe place' or meant to be.
DIRs are regulated most frequently because it is difficult to remain neutral and not argue but we do ask everyone to try their best.