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Is this proselytising?

Eddi

Christianity
Premium Member
Is this proselytising?
  • Set up a stall on a relatively busy pedestrianised street
  • Have a sign offering prayers to people who are interested - offering to either pray for them or pray with them (or both)
  • Just sit there, waiting for people to approach
  • Have reading material available for those who approach us and engage us in conversation
I have designed this to be as un-intrusive and inoffensive as possible

I want my freedom to religious expression to be respected and in turn I want to respect peoples' freedom from religion as I recognise that respect is a two-way street
 

SalixIncendium

अहं ब्रह्मास्मि
Staff member
Premium Member
I don't see any intent to convert someone to your religion by merely offering to pray for or with them. So there is no proselytizing in that regard.

However, if your reading material has any content that suggests that they become a part of your religion or religious organization, then you've crossed the line into proselytizing.
 

Eddi

Christianity
Premium Member
However, if your reading material has any content that suggests that they become a part of your religion or religious organization, then you've crossed the line into proselytizing.
I wouldn't say that we'd have "crossed the line"

I'd say that the person who approached our stall and engaged us would have "crossed the line"
 

Kenny

Face to face with my Father
Premium Member
Is this proselytising?
  • Set up a stall on a relatively busy pedestrianised street
  • Have a sign offering prayers to people who are interested - offering to either pray for them or pray with them (or both)
  • Just sit there, waiting for people to approach
  • Have reading material available for those who approach us and engage us in conversation
I have designed this to be as un-intrusive and inoffensive as possible

I want my freedom to religious expression to be respected and in turn I want to respect peoples' freedom from religion as I recognise that respect is a two-way street
No. Those who come are interested.

If someone says "yes" - they are trying to limit your freedom of speech and simply believe you should stay in your home and church.

Then again, they did the same to the Apostles. Names have changed but not people.
 

Niblo

Active Member
Premium Member
How would you feel if you saw our stall?

See my amended post. How would I feel? That would depend on what you had to say and your manner of saying it. You just might have something to say that I've not heard before.
 

SalixIncendium

अहं ब्रह्मास्मि
Staff member
Premium Member
I wouldn't say that we'd have "crossed the line"

I'd say that the person who approached our stall and engaged us would have "crossed the line"

People approach with the understanding that you are offering prayers. By offering them material intended to convert them to your religion, you, not they, have engaged in proselytizing.

I'm not judging you for proselytizing, but please don't say something is not that clearly is.
 

danieldemol

Veteran Member
Premium Member
Is this proselytising?
  • Set up a stall on a relatively busy pedestrianised street
  • Have a sign offering prayers to people who are interested - offering to either pray for them or pray with them (or both)
  • Just sit there, waiting for people to approach
  • Have reading material available for those who approach us and engage us in conversation
I have designed this to be as un-intrusive and inoffensive as possible

I want my freedom to religious expression to be respected and in turn I want to respect peoples' freedom from religion as I recognise that respect is a two-way street
It is technically proselytizing, however it is not intrusive or inherently offensive in my opinion.

My reaction to such a stall would just be to ignore it since I've seen no evidence that prayer has anything more than a placebo effect (or it may have an educational effect depending on what you pray about).

In my opinion.
 

ChristineM

"Be strong", I whispered to my coffee.
Premium Member
@Eddi

If you are attempting to convert people to your religion then you are proselytizing.

If someone is genuinely interested in what you have to say then tread carefully. It's easy to cross the like from conversation to proselytizing.
 

Eddi

Christianity
Premium Member
People approach with the understanding that you are offering prayers. By offering them material intended to convert them to your religion, you, not they, have engaged in proselytizing.

I'm not judging you for proselytizing, but please don't say something is not that clearly is.
Well, that's fair enough

But I don't there is anything wrong with it it in such an instance

I should think and hope that anyone who came to our stall would be cool with the reading material, if they were cool with the idea of prayer, I don't think that would amount to forcing ourselves onto them as some do
 

Secret Chief

Vetted Member
Is this proselytising?
  • Set up a stall on a relatively busy pedestrianised street
  • Have a sign offering prayers to people who are interested - offering to either pray for them or pray with them (or both)
  • Just sit there, waiting for people to approach
  • Have reading material available for those who approach us and engage us in conversation
I have designed this to be as un-intrusive and inoffensive as possible

I want my freedom to religious expression to be respected and in turn I want to respect peoples' freedom from religion as I recognise that respect is a two-way street

"to try to persuade someone to change their religious or political beliefs or way of living to your own"
- proselytize

How say you?
 

Eddi

Christianity
Premium Member
@Eddi

If you are attempting to convert people to your religion then you are proselytizing.

If someone is genuinely interested in what you have to say then tread carefully. It's easy to cross the like from conversation to proselytizing.
Yes, that is what I would intend to do

Perhaps I could assess their interest by conversing with them, before offering them a leaflet? And then only doing so in a respectful and zero-pressure way?
 

SalixIncendium

अहं ब्रह्मास्मि
Staff member
Premium Member
Well, that's fair enough

But I don't there is anything wrong with it it in such an instance

I never said there was.

I should think and hope that anyone who came to our stall would be cool with the reading material, if they were cool with the idea of prayer, I don't think that would amount to forcing ourselves onto them as some do

I would approach our of curiosity. This doesn't mean I'm interested in any reading material, because none is advertised on the signage.
 

Eddi

Christianity
Premium Member
I never said there was.



I would approach our of curiosity. This doesn't mean I'm interested in any reading material, because none is advertised on the signage.
I should imagine that the reading material would be set out on the table, plain to see

And I would only offer it having conversed and established some kind of rapport
 

Unveiled Artist

Veteran Member
Is this proselytising?
  • Set up a stall on a relatively busy pedestrianised street
  • Have a sign offering prayers to people who are interested - offering to either pray for them or pray with them (or both)
  • Just sit there, waiting for people to approach
  • Have reading material available for those who approach us and engage us in conversation
I have designed this to be as un-intrusive and inoffensive as possible

I want my freedom to religious expression to be respected and in turn I want to respect peoples' freedom from religion as I recognise that respect is a two-way street

If your intent is to convert: let us pray so you can come to Christ, yes, it is. If you ask them If they approach what do They want to pray about it's not.

I had a Christian walk up to me out of the blue and said did you want me to pray with you. She proceeded to talk about Christ and asked a couple times before she decided to do so herself. The idea is that by praying I'll turn to Christ cause the HS is so strong it fights skepticism. That's. Proselytizing.

Let the interested run the show. Let them ignore you if so be.
 
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Firelight

Inactive member
It’s “mild” proselytizing. But, a conversation could turn it “hefty” depending on the pressure put on a person to convert. But, it seems you don’t plan to apply pressure. So, it sounds cool.
 

9-10ths_Penguin

1/10 Subway Stalinist
Premium Member
Is this proselytising?
  • Set up a stall on a relatively busy pedestrianised street
  • Have a sign offering prayers to people who are interested - offering to either pray for them or pray with them (or both)
  • Just sit there, waiting for people to approach
  • Have reading material available for those who approach us and engage us in conversation
I have designed this to be as un-intrusive and inoffensive as possible
It probably depend on the content of that reading material and "conversation." Offhand, I'm not sure what offering prayers to people has to do with trying to convert them.

... but here's the only test that matters: is this something you would be doing with the intent - or hope - of bringing new converts into your church? If so, then it's proselytizing.

I want my freedom to religious expression to be respected and in turn I want to respect peoples' freedom from religion as I recognise that respect is a two-way street
What bearing does whether it's proselytizing have on the question of whether you're allowed to do it?

Proselytizing is generally legal.
 
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