ok, I will try
it’s not easy for me to speak totally at ease
this is the internet after all
but consider that the Lord wants the absolute best for everyone
consider whether an infinite love, the source of all goodness and truth, could punish anyone
but then this infinite love cannot allow any evil to get near itself, nor near the heaven where it resides
what is the answer?
what if those individuals who have chosen a life of falsity and evil, through their own free will and choices, while are earth, must go to a “place” of their own making, where they can exist in their evils with others like them?
what if a hellish person, who resides in hell, was allowed to visit heaven? would he like it, or would he hate it and feel horribly out of place? would he possibly desire to get back to people who think and act more like him?
i have had an experience that may illustrate this:
i once had a good friend who I enjoyed many years spending time with. he had a habit of speaking very very poorly about everyone he knew, many whom I knew as well. i would listen, as a friend. i assumed he surely wouldn’t speak evil of me, would he? after years of this, I then found the Lord, and my desire to spend time in gossip fests no longer was there. at first, I would steer the conversations to other benign topics, but eventually had to mention that I did not like gossiping. he acted like i was attempting to murder him. how dare I say such a thing? he said he was only providing useful “information”.
and then, he eventually threw me away, and found others to continue living the life he loved.
just my ramblings