JK Rowling: Profoundly Misunderstood

[The Kilted Heathen]

I posted a couple of videos that show that some lesbians clearly state that they are into female genitalia, and they don't want to date trans women. Period.

Cool. That is their experience and preference, not every single lesbian out there.

You cannot treat an entire demographic like a monolith. Because in saying "Lesbians like..." you are saying "[All] Lesbians like..." rather than "This lesbian, and some like her, like..."

 

[Estro Felino]

Cool. That is their experience and preference, not every single lesbian out there.

You cannot treat an entire demographic like a monolith.

But that was a given. We are all different. My point is that biological sex matters to non-bisexual people.

If I say "I am not attracted to people with female genitalia", I say something relevant. Sexual preferences matter, regardless of gender.

 

[The Kilted Heathen]

My point is that biological sex matters to non-bisexual people.

SOME people. It matters to SOME people, not all.

 

[Estro Felino]

SOME people. It matters to SOME people, not all.

I think to most people.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

There is a difference between lesbian and bisexual.

Amd clearly you dont know what all goes into sexual and romantic attraction.

 

[Estro Felino]

Amd clearly you dont know what all goes into sexual and romantic attraction.

Explain me, then.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Explain me, then.

It's more than your junk.

 

[The Kilted Heathen]

I think to most people.

You might think, but you don't know.

 

[Estro Felino]

It's more than your junk.

To some. But not to everyone.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

To some. But not to everyone.

So most couples youve ever known has only went on about how much they love each other's genitals? Nothing else?

 

[Estro Felino]

So most couples youve ever known has only went on about how much they love each other's genitals? Nothing else?

No, absolutely. But how do you define "heterosexual"?

 

[The Kilted Heathen]

But how do you define "heterosexual"?

People who are attracted to the opposite sex.

 

[Estro Felino]

People who are attracted to the opposite sex.

So for example, a ciswoman who has female genitalia is attracted to a cisman with male genitalia.
Opposite sex.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

So for example, a ciswoman who has female genitalia is attracted to a cisman with male genitalia.
Opposite sex.

This doesn't even mention a girls cooter once.

And another example where theres more than her crotch and physical things.

And more of it being more than his junk.

And even more than just her crotch.

 

[The Kilted Heathen]

So for example, a ciswoman who has female genitalia is attracted to a cisman with male genitalia.
Opposite sex.

Or a transsexual man. Again, sex is not all about genitalia and is quite complicated itself.

 

[Estro Felino]

Or a transsexual man. Again, sex is not all about genitalia and is quite complicated itself.

Honestly, with all due respect...really...
I think in my country we are much more outspoken when it deals with sex, and whenever one has to go into detail (of course without being vulgar).
It seems to me that I am not understood here. As if I spoke a different language.

There are ciswomen who are not into transmen, because of the genitalia problem.

 

[ADigitalArtist]

So for example, a ciswoman who has female genitalia is attracted to a cisman with male genitalia.
Opposite sex.

Doesn't have to be a cisman. A ciswomam attracted to a transman is still heterosexual. Because transmen are men. They might have a preference for penis so they are looking for postop transmen, but just like there are plenty of gay people who maintain straight relationships for various reasons, there are also plenty of people with preferences for things their partner don't have but they still stay with them.

One shouldn't force them to be in that position but one should also not tell them what their preference is when they've explicitly told you what it was.

If you came up to a cis woman like me and said I'm not heterosexual because I would date a transman I would tell you to **** right the hell off.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

So are you saying that you are attracted to people, regardless of their genitalia?

I'm saying I'm (most people) are attracted to more than genitalia.

Honestly, with all due respect...really...
I think in my country we are much more outspoken when it deals with sex, and whenever one has to go into detail (of course without being vulgar).
It seems to me that I am not understood here. As if I spoke a different language.

If that were the case then I don't think Italian women being sexually unsatisfied would be a national trend for yall.

 

[Estro Felino]

Doesn't have to be a cisman. A ciswomam attracted to a transman is still heterosexual. Because transmen are men. They might have a preference for penis so they are looking for postop transmen, but just like there are plenty of gay people who maintain straight relationships for various reasons, there are also plenty of people with preferences for things their partner don't have but they still stay with them.

One shouldn't force them to be in that position but one should also not tell them what their preference is when they've explicitly told you what it was.

If you came up to a cis woman like me and said I'm not heterosexual because I would date a transman I would tell you to **** right the hell off.

I never implied that all heterosexual ciswomen are into cismen, I said most surely do...statistically.

 

[The Kilted Heathen]

IThere are ciswomen who are not into transmen, because of the genitalia problem.

Granted. But that is not all ciswomen.