I agree with you.
I may be wrong, but I believe that JW's teach that only the anointed, the 144,000 are "in Christ." Pegg can correct me if she feels the need.
JW's say the majority of the NT is written to the anointed only. If that is the case, the rank and file JW's are getting no spiritual blessings, including forgiveness of sins, (Eph. 1:7) because ALL spiritual blessings are "in Christ." (Eph. 1:3) When you ask a JW who Ephesians is written to, they will tell you it is written to the anointed only.
My point in writing all this is to say that one cannot abide in Christ if one is not "in Christ" to begin with.
JW's do not believe they are born again, and will not be until they physically die.
Oh what a tangled web they weave...