Heterosexuality causes pregnancy, thank goodness. Without it our species would be long gone.
I disagree.
There's nothing that heterosexuality can do that bisexuality can't, and procreation doesn't have to be about attraction; there's always the option to "close your eyes and think of England", to quote Queen Victoria (IIRC).
All those scenarios are examples of irresponsibility, not heterosexuality. Yes unwanted pregnancy happens. But sex is voluntary, except in rape. One can choose one's behavior. My opinion on sexuality also includes no unwed sex. Period. I believe that the power of procreation is God-given and with it comes tremendous responsibility that we will all be held acountable for.
I think Auto's point is that heterosexuality + irresponsibility can result in unwanted pregnancy. Homosexuality + irresponsibility almost always cannot.
I am not supporting legislation to outlaw homosexuality. I am not calling for laws against irresponsible behavior. I believe in free choice in most cases. I do support the traditional defination of marriage between a man and woman as a protection for the optimum family situation for the benefit of children. This is how it's always been in every major society throughout history. Our current society is not wiser than all of history. This change in marriage is entirely new ground for mankind.
But it reflects reality.
I mentioned a point before, but I think it got lost in the mass of posts that this thread has become: the choice available isn't one between the existence of same-sex parented families or not; it's between
giving rights or not to those families, who will exist no matter what.
You have your ideas about what an "ideal" family is. Personally, I disagree with them, but I recognize them. However, given that these "non-ideal" (in your measure) families exist, doesn't it behoove us to make sure that those families and the children in them receive the protection from the government that helps foster a solid, supportive family that all children are entitled to?
You talked about how it's best to have a mother and a father rather than two parents... but knowing that this option is not available, which would you prefer:
- on the death of one parent, for the child to stay with the only other parent he or she has ever known, or
- on the death of one parent, for the child to be sent off to some uncle grandparent and be cut off from their surviving parent?