gsa
Well-Known Member
If you cannot choose to understand that these words alone telegraph the fact that you are more likely white than of color, more likely male than female, more likely cis than trans, and more likely straight than gay or bi, then you and I are pretty much done. Seriously, there is no point in our going round and round any more without an honest and open acknowledgement of the various privileges you and I have. Statistically it's nearly impossible that you don't possess at least one of the aforementioned privileges. At least I can admit that I have them and deserve none of them.
Thanks for the name. I'll be sure to take a look.
Let me be clear: Neither of us have privileges. For you, being a heterosexual white male does not confer any special right, special advantage, or special immunity. Now, being gay, female or a person of color does come, or at a minimum can come with and is more likely to come with, with special social disadvantages and disparate treatment. Furthermore, you and I almost certainly agree that being gay, female or a person of color should not come with any social disadvantage. We probably also agree that being a black lesbian has a much greater probability of coming with multiple social disadvantages. And hopefully, we agree that black lesbians should have the same opportunities that white heterosexual men have.
But we are not beneficiaries of those social disadvantages. We do not gain from them. That is what your "privilege" implies, and that is wrong.