I really despise being lectured on privilege by certain self-proclaimed "privileged white men," who have a tendency to speak like converts on the road to Damascus and have a penchant for assuming that opposition to their analysis is the result of psychological defensiveness or failure to understand. With that said...
Disagreement is not defensiveness. Your crude attempts at psychoanalysis have certainly made this "conversation" unpleasant, but you haven't even bothered to note that we do not disagree on certain fundamental facts. You simply assumed that you are speaking with a reactionary.
A discussion is not an attack. By all means, let us discuss issues like racial disparities in incarceration, or wage disparities by gender. I am happy to have those discussions. But we are not having a discussion; you are simply hurling accusations of privilege because I have not accepted your interpretation of these facts, because my own investigation of these issues over a number of years led me to a different conclusion.
I understand what "privilege" is, although anymore I refrain from calling it that because it implies agreement with the proposed interpretative framework of those who promote this analysis. I am not going to address whether or not I fall into any of those categories listed above, but I will tell you this: If you cannot make a reasoned argument that is not dependent on standpoint epistemology, you are probably left to either bask in your own self-righteousness or to win a couple of temporary converts using group pressure tactics.
Well class is not simply about being rich, and Scalzi actually only addresses income, not wealth or class. And neither of you addresses it as I believe it should be addressed: The basis of social inequality.
If you think that the President of the United States making a passing positive reference to a group constitutes some sort of major political achievement, then I cannot help you. But since I believe you have decided that words are a substitute for action, I am also not surprised.
By and large members of these groups do not wholly adopt the kind of analysis you are promoting here. The accusation is against you, not them. Please remember, although I know it is difficult, that you do not speak for them.
Thank you St. Paul, but while I will not be joining your movement by "opening my heart" to your emotive appeals, I am happy to discuss it rationally.
If you are a white person, then all other factors being equal, your life is going to be easier than it would be for a person of color.
If you are a male, then all other factors being equal, your life is going to be easier than it would be for a female.
If you are straight, then all other factors being equal, your life is going to be easier than for a gay person, bisexual, or lesbian.
If you are cisgender, then all other factors being equal, your life is going to be easier than for a transgendered person.
If you are able-bodied, then all other factors being equal, your life is going to be easier than for someone who is physically disabled.
If you are free from mental illnesses, then all other factors being equal, your life is going to be easier than for a person with mental illnesses.
These are facts. To get annoyed by or defensive at these facts is to feel that you are at least as oppressed simply for having your privilege called out as a person of color, a female, an LGBTQIA, a transgender, or a disabled person is simply because of who they are and the systems of power that exist today. Not checking one's privilege at the door is narcissism, pure and simple.
Hey look dude, I always start where I'm coming from as a feminist. But if you think I'm a SJW who is oblivious to the world outside her keyboard, then you haven't been paying attention enough. That is, if you're insinuating that I'm part of the problem.
And, fwiw, I took one women's studies course back in college in 1994.
SJW = Straight ___ White? What does the J stand for?
I think they do if they are based on demonstrable facts. They can be very useful to drive a point home.
It seems to me that tacit approval of sexism and misogyny doesn't serve civil discussion either.
This. A thousand times this. The whole idea of "let's hear opposing points of view" assumes that all such views (1) are based in fact, (2) leave one's biases and privileges out of it, and (3) do not have the effect of trivializing, bullying, or silencing disenfranchised groups. As I have said before and will say again, and again and again and again: Views that fail this basic test do not deserve to be heard out and should not be heard out. The only thing such views deserve is full exposure and swift eradication.
Sunny...didn't you know that "truth" must pass the litmus test of the Self-Made Marlboro Man American Myth first? I mean, if Chuck Norris scoffs at a claim, it must not be true. And it must not be American.
You misspelled "Murica."