You have an excellent point. What we really need is a good definition of religion. For me personally I find the Bahai definition very acceptable.
Religion should unite all hearts and cause wars and disputes to vanish from the face of the earth, give birth to spirituality, and bring life and light to each heart. If religion becomes a cause of dislike, hatred and division, it were better to be without it, and to withdraw from such a religion would be a truly religious act. Any religion which is not a cause of love and unity is no religion.”
Okay... let me show you something.
Truth, Love, and Courage.
Honesty is respect for Truth.
Compassion is Love for others.
Valor is Courage to stand up against risks.
Justice is Truth, tempered by Love.
Sacrifice is Courage to give oneself in the name of Love.
Honor is Courage to seek and uphold the Truth.
Spirituality is to seek Truth, Love, and Courage from oneself and the world around.
Humility is the opposite of Pride, which is the absense of Truth, Love, and Courage.
Now, if you've seen these before, you might know where I'm going with this. But if not, would you say this fits that definition?