So we are reduced to stats now? What percentage of Jews accepted Jesus as Messiah?
We do not tolerate those who want their own way whilst pretending to follow God's way. We don't get to do our own thing for the simple reason, that when we dedicate our lives to God, we actually mean it. Our own wants and needs are put aside whilst we put the interests of God's Kingdom first (Matthew 6:33) and our own selfish pursuits second.
Unrepentant wrongdoers are missing from our ranks because we disfellowship them. We make no apology for that. The way is always open to return if they meet the criteria. (1 Corinthians 5:9-13) Who wants to retain dissenters and those who thumb their noses at God's laws? Being a Christian has never been about the numbers. (Matthew 7:13, 14) Its about faith without compromise.
Just being raised as a Witness is no guarantee that our children will follow our way of life. We do not force them but we understand that the world is ruled by satan and there are traps for the unwary and inexperienced. (1 John 2:15-17; 5:19) We give them warnings, but at the end of the day, it is a hard life being obedient to God and the teachings of Jesus Christ in this environment. Self interest often wins out over the fallen flesh....even with adults.