i never told anyone how to feel. i told you the science shows that loving kindness can be for the greater good. I also know this from 1st hand experience.
you're extremely mistaken; if you think i have the ability, or anyone else does, to force someone to believe anything. research from evidence doesn't lie.
no one has to like the results but the results and the research are there.
The phone rang...someone in NYC does not seem to know
it is already tomorrow in HK, very EARLY tomorrow.
So much for sleep.
I dont think and you can force me to believe something. Where
you got that I dunno.
The results you cite may well be valid. You could cite all sorts of
other valid results that are also not applicable.
Now for your sentence in red. " I
never told anyone how to feel."
You probably never have, its not a good thing to do.
But that is not it, as I never brought that up, you did, just now.
Look at my words. Now look at what you denied. Not the same!
Telling me how I do feel, as per our fool,...
Sp- I said how I feel,
and you corrected me, adding in some detail, now I
actually do
feel, think, and act. (as shown by science, no less)
See your mistake? And really, you dont get to tell me how
I feel. Or that I am justifying something when I am not.
Here is how it went
Me-
I am not angry, nor do I hate the monster who hurt me.
You-
the science disagrees.
you are attempting to justify hatred as healthy. it isn't
hatred is a long term emotion that involves an attachment to something that was temporal. people do negative things out of hatred, the lack of love. hatred causes people to transfer a temporal event into long term actions because of similarities that are not necessarily justified and the person behaves that way because of a trigger
And you got none of it correct. Sound concepts, no doubt, but
they do not apply to me here. All the things I do out of hatred that
I dont feel. Etc.
Do you see your mistake(s)?
