That Roosh guy is a psychopath. I follow that Return of Kings site on my feed reader and it's extremely horrible. Sadly, I think his views are more widespread than one would like to think, MRA or in just in general.
I don't see much man-hating from feminists these days. That was really a 2nd Wave radfem thing and associated with "political lesbianism" and lesbian separatism. Those types tend to be up in age and literally dying out. They have some younger converts, but they tend to be pretty marginalized. 3rd Wave feminism is currently the mainstream of feminism and tends to be more inclusive of everyone, or at least strives to be.
Political "lesbianism" in theory wasn't about promoting hate for men but in actuality it was the promotion of women loving women, strengthening self love and healing.
Take for instance Audre Lorde's definition of being a lesbian: "Strongly woman-identified women where love between women is open and possible, beyond physical in every way... the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women."
I have a huge gripe with calling it political lesbianism because it implies something that straight women do when they are bored and annoyed with men.
I prefer to call it female separatism and not erase the attraction that women can feel towards men or harm lesbians by implying you can be attracted to men and still be a lesbian.
I've recently discovered I'm most likely bisexual through connecting with other WOC WLW radical feminists and sharing our experiences of compulsory heterosexuality. Having a strong female support system and being celibate from men is very effective for some women in discovering their sexuality. Focusing my energy on connecting with and supporting other women has lead me to be far more aware of my romantic feelings towards them.
I'm glad to hear you have mixed feelings about Andrea. I do too, in regards to race.