Unveiled Artist
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It was a couple, and they were a little hurt. There wasn't a fight, but nobody was happy, not those asking others to stay home, and not those being asked. I hope that they aren't still angry. I don't know what the future of the relationship is at this time.
I can see why they'd be hurt. You can't really force people to welcome you for some of the choices you make for yourself if they feel it may harm others. I know for me it wouldn't be because he or she wasn't vaccinated. I mean if we never knew of this virus and we invited friends to our home it would probably be the same as if we knew it exist. So, there are risks but in this case it sounds less about the virus and more about fear of the unknown (in my opinion).
I'm assuming that all unvaccinated people are more likely to be infected at any given moment than vaccinated people in any given locale.
How high is the level of risk you place on them when you find out they're not vaccinated?
I mean, vaccination isn't an issue for me. However, if I knew someone was sick or high risk area, I'd probably want them to social distance and/or wear a mask. But it would be overstepping my boundaries to not be around them because they "may" have COVID. I mean, I can't think of two or three years ago I'm hanging out with my friend and then a year ago, I dump her cause she decided not to get vaccinated (though she did but in this example). I'd be upset if she told me I couldn't go in her home. Maybe she's irresponsible, I don't know; but, I do know that it depends. I'm in the States so maybe population is different over there than here in Virginia. Then you have states where there are barely any infections because of such a little population.
So, I'd need more data before I stop inviting people to my home.
Perhaps. But in both locations, the unvaccinated are more likely to be infected at any given time.
More likely but that doesn't explain the risk factor level. It could be 1% in one place and 99% somewhere else. Seems like you're putting everyone in one box.
Sorry to hear about your health issues.
Eh. Thank you. Had it for so far twenty years. You do get my point though?
It does where I live. Mexico is not as far along in its vaccine rollout as the States.
Oh. That would mean you're generalizing, no?
I can see why you'd want to be around people vaccinated there if the risk is high. If the risk is low to none, maybe your views would be a bit more relaxed?
No unvaccinated person is invited to dinner at my home at this time. Do you think it should be otherwise?
Well, if you're in a high risk area, I understand. But for me, in US VA, no. I wouldn't tell someone not to come in my home. If I were taking care of a older loved one, I'd be a bit more cautious who I invite. Though, since I'm personally not in a high risk area, I'd invite the same people over today as I would have five years ago. Even if I let them know not to come over cause (say) I'm taking care of family and very precautious at least its not in the manner of telling them they may be plagued-and definitely not because they weren't vaccinated.
If I knew my friend had COVID, I wouldn't ask if she got vaccinated or not or ask her for a passport to prove she is over the disease so I can invite her in. I'd just let her know I'm uncomfortable and maybe taking care of a loved one and we can hang out somewhere else. If she's really sick I'd visit her of course, help her out, not run away from her as if she has some sort of plague that "will" kill the entire town. Unless I was OCD before the pandemic, I've never been like that without good factual cause.