namaskaram prabhu ji :namaste
dont mind MV ji , he enjoys to tease his freinds ...
a quick explanation for your benifit , I practiced tibetan buddhism for many years so still have a deep and affectionate love for the buddhas , ....(And I fall out with buddhists all the time because they dont like the personification of the buddha's let alone loving devotion ....) .... but then by divine intervention shri ji decided he wanted me to serve him as krsna so he called me to serve at his lotus feet , and there I stayed .....
I realy dont want to thow things of topic here but breifly .....the majority of vaisnava dont realy give buddha a second thought and just give an abridged version of the bhagavatam's explanation regarding gautama buddha , and realy there is no need for them to look at it too deeply as it is not relevent to their devotional path , ....but coming from tibetan buddhism where the focus is upon many aspects of bhuddi and seeks to understand the ultimate reality behind the apperance of gautama . one comes to an understanding far closer to narayana , and as the names for parameshwara differ from hindu sect to hindu sect , what difference is there in a buddhist who realises the supreme as adi buddha ? .... none :namaste
studdied carefully there is no difference in the principles it is sanatana dharma
and even the ''to confuse atheists'' story is not the only understanding , just a breif simplification ....
it is just that gautama buddha is little discussed , ....because it isnt that relevent to the devotions of most vaisnava's in much the same way that the stories of valmandev and parasurama are seldom deeply considered .
but as both traditions have been a part of my path I am endebted to both .
and I see no contradiction , it has simply served to deepen my understanding .