There may have been an "official ban" but it was not a ban authorized by God. When I have used the word "official," I have used it to mean "doctrinally binding." I'm assuming you have, too. In this context, that may not have been the most accurate word to have chosen. It was "official" in that any policy enacted by the General Authorities is "official." "Official" does not necessarily mean "revealed by God as true." In 1954, David O. McKay, then President of the Church, stated, There is not now, and there never has been a doctrine in this Church that the Negroes are under a divine curse.
There is no doctrine in the Church of any kind pertaining to the Negro. We believe that we have a scriptural precedent for withholding the Priesthood from the Negro. It is a practice, not a doctrine, and the practice someday will be changed. And thats all there is to it. You and I can understand what that means. Any non-Mormon who
wants to understand what it means should not have too difficult a time doing so. It will unfortunately go right over the heads of those whose only point in posting here is to win a debate that is ultimately not ever going to be won by either side.
Several times during the past four or five years, I have attended the annual FAIR (Foundation for Apologetic Information & Research) Conference here in Salt Lake City, and have twice been privileged to hear Darius Gray speak. Darius Gray, as you may know, Darius Gray was called in 1971 (six and one-half years prior to the ban being lifted) by Gordon B. Hinckley, Thomas S. Monson and Boyd K. Packer (then all apostles) as a counselor in the newly formed Genesis Group, an official auxiliary unit of the Church for the purpose of meeting the needs of Black members of the Church. He served as President of that group from 1997 until 2003.
On both occasions that Gray spoke, he said something that I wrote down verbatim but have been unable to find in my recent search. Unfortunately I can't give you a word-for-word quote, but I will convey what he said as accurately as I possibly can. In speaking personally to the Church's leadership (I got the impression it was to the First Presidency, but I couldn't swear to that), he asked them to please help him to understand the reason for the ban. They told him that
the Lord had never authorized it but that He had permitted it. I wish I could recall the rest, but I can't. The one thing I do recall, though, was that he said that he had asked them for permission to share that explanation and was given their blessing to do so. That really made an impact on me, and I do not believe he would have made that statement had he been asked to keep it confidential.