i will in fact do my best to be respectful on this one, because you truly gave me an honest from the heart answer it seems. what i take from your answer however is that you make your decisions simply based on convenience and what feels and looks best to you.
I have to make my decisions based on what feels right to me. It wouldn't make sense for me to make them based on any other criteria. Of course, I wouldn't expect you to make your decisions based on what feels right to me. We each have to find our own path and trust in a loving and merciful God.
its all about being satisfied and feeling good....of course you dont want to just worship a superior being, you want to be superior yourself. who doesnt right??
I'm not sure I understand this statement, so rather than second-guessing you, I'll just ask you to rephrase it before I reply.
you believe in convenience. and you use that same reasoning with denying that the black ban was authorized by god. because you were raised in different times under different conditions and it just doesnt seem right, correct?
Again, I'm not quite sure I'm following you. I believe that the men who authorized the ban against Blacks holding the priesthood were not acting under the direction of God. I do not believe He authorized the ban. I do believe, however, that He has given us our free agency. Having free agency is a 100% guarantee that we will make mistakes. And men chosen by God to lead His Church are not immune from making mistakes.
the problem is, those prophets who claim the ban came from god were also doing what felt right. to them, racism was just another part of life. and they really believed the ban came from god. so then who are you to say their beliefs are wrong and yours are right? who are you to say that what you believe in is god inspired but what they believed in was not?
I can't speak for them, but I won't judge them either. It would be impossible for me to say to what degree they felt that the ban was justified and to what degree they were simply products of a culture that was, in fact, racist. I really do try not to judge other people when it is impossible for me to see what is in their hearts. All I can do is express my opinion, and my opinion is that the ban against Blacks holding the priesthood was a result of an error on the part of good but fallible men.
and what about your values? you dont agree with homosexuality, do you? well, i got news for you, sooner or later the lds will accept gays and lesbians, values will change and they will look back at your generation, just like you looked back at poligamy, and say that sexual intolerance was not from god but rather human bigotry, because god loves everyone of every race and sexual orientation. what will you say then? will you say they are wrong? or will you admit you are wrong??
Well, we'll see if your news for me pans out. Quite frankly, I believe it's impossible for you to predict with any degree of accuracy what direction the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints will take in the future with regards to homosexuality. It would be impossible for me to predict and I certainly have a better understanding of the way the Church does things than you do.
But, setting your prediction aside and responding to your question about my values... More than just about anything else, I value integrity. That means standing up for what I believe, regardless of the consequences. It means being who I claim to be and not simply taking the easy way out by pretending to agree with people I really don't agree with. It means opening myself up to criticism from my fellow Latter-day Saints and ridicule from people who think my religion is a huge joke.
I don't believe we choose to whom we are going to be sexually attracted. I know I never sat down and weighed the pros and cons of heterosexuality over homosexuality and then decided to be straight. I liked boys a long time before anybody ever told me that's who I was "supposed to" like. I do believe we choose our behavior and our actions, however, and I don't believe God approves of sexual intimacy between people of the same sex. That said, I believe that what two consenting adults want to do in the privacy of their own bedroom is between those two people and God. It's none of my business. I do not personally oppose gay marriage because I believe all people are entitled to equal civil rights under the laws of the land. I've said on other threads that I don't believe that denying someone his civil rights is going to change his sexual behavior one single bit. If God doesn't like what people are doing in their bedrooms, He will have His say sooner or later. I've got me to worry about, not someone else.
You see, you've judged me wrongly on that account. If you knew me, you might find that I am really pretty different than what you imagine me to be.
mormonism looks exremely fickle to me
Okay.