i'm conflicted on this issue as well for all the reasons Kathryn stated.
for most issues, i'd say that Muslims should stand their ground (if they want to build a mosque in my neighborhood and people were opposing, for instance)...i'd be the first one out there defending the Freedom of Religion Amendment and making damn sure no one was being victimized.
however, in this case, although the proposed center is blocks away from Ground Zero...why do something just because you "legally can"? i understand they may be trying to better interfaith relations, community relations, etc., but at what expense? i hate to ever side with staunch Republicans who are lying through their teeth to sensationalize and propagandize the issue, but i also can't fully stand behind something that has the public at large opposing it.
quite frankly, if i worked in lower Manhattan, i'm not so sure i'd feel completely comfortable or safe entering the center. people who lost family members on 9/11 (albeit not from any of the proposed owners/members of this center) are very passionate, and i can't stand the sight of angry people...even if misplaced on me. i don't generally give in to the bully-style tactics, but i have to admit this is clearly a different issue. i'm just not sure how i feel about this...
therefore, in my opinion, the center has the right to be there legally, but i question the right in terms of sensitivity and the true essence of moving forward in the community. i have a feeling the powers-that-be are going to push ahead with this plan anyway, but i'm not sure how i feel about it.
i would hope, however, that should Muslims decide to scratch this plan and move the center elsewhere, there would be no opposition to that location should it be zoned properly, etc.
it's a tough one, that's for sure.
edit: i'll add that should the Muslim community decide not to build here, it should be their decision alone, not some crap drummed up by Rush Limbaugh and his lemmings.