I was sitting in a Muslim Women's Party, Halaka I believe, when a woman from one of the Gulf countries sat down beside me. She told me that it was a wonderful advantage that I could read, and said that most of the women there could not read, and only knew of the Qur'an what their husbands told them. Foreign Muslim culture here in the US is quite closed to outsiders. I say this to emphasize that many Muslims don't know their own religion.
I've been very closed about baha'i because I don't know anything about it.
It would be a wonderful read about Tahirih then, a disciple of the Bab, most likely the first Islamic women to stand up for modern womens rights, in the age of great suppression of women and who was martyred as a result - Táhirih - Wikipedia
I understand that Baha'i is a challenge, it is for me as well.
Peace be with you.