Naked pictures of your wife/girlfriend

[We Never Know]

I've been married twice and have had plenty girlfriends throughout my life.

I never took pictures of them naked because the only picture(s) I needed were in my mind.

With that said I had a friend show me naked pictures of his current girlfriend he has on his cell phone(had this has happened several times with different people and even of their wife).

My question... if you took pictures of them, why would you show your buddies? To me that's disrespectful and degrading to the woman, maybe even broke her trust of you.

Edit...
Let me add... They always say you can't tell.
So in reality they know its wrong

 

[John53]

I've never taken naked pictures of my wife and no one has ever offered to show me naked pictures of their significant other. I guess I lead a dull life

 

[mangalavara]

My question... if you took pictures of them, why would you show your buddies? To me that's disrespectful and degrading to the woman, maybe even broke her trust of you.

It's probably the same reason lots of young guys show each other the porn they have: it's something to bond over, to them. It could also be that the men who show each other nude pics of their wives are doing it to brag about their wives being hot.

 

[Debater Slayer]

I've been married twice and have had plenty girlfriends throughout my life.

I never took pictures of them naked because the only picture(s) I needed were in my mind.

With that said I had a friend show me naked pictures of his current girlfriend he has on his cell phone(had this has happened several times with different people and even of their wife).

My question... if you took pictures of them, why would you show your buddies? To me that's disrespectful and degrading to the woman, maybe even broke her trust of you.

Edit...
Let me add... They always say you can't tell.
So in reality they know its wrong

I would most likely lose my trust of anyone who did such a thing. I agree it's disrespectful and encroaches on the women's privacy. It's also a violation of their trust in the person who has the photos.

 

[Father Heathen]

It's an ego thing.

 

[The Hammer]

I've been married twice and have had plenty girlfriends throughout my life.

I never took pictures of them naked because the only picture(s) I needed were in my mind.

With that said I had a friend show me naked pictures of his current girlfriend he has on his cell phone(had this has happened several times with different people and even of their wife).

My question... if you took pictures of them, why would you show your buddies? To me that's disrespectful and degrading to the woman, maybe even broke her trust of you.

Edit...
Let me add... They always say you can't tell.
So in reality they know its wrong

Taking naked pictures of your spouse for your persual, is not a big deal in my opinion. But to show them to others is a sign of disrespect, unless done with their permission.

But, I wouldn't turn down looking at a nude photo if offered.

 

[Spirit of Light]

I've been married twice and have had plenty girlfriends throughout my life.

I never took pictures of them naked because the only picture(s) I needed were in my mind.

With that said I had a friend show me naked pictures of his current girlfriend he has on his cell phone(had this has happened several times with different people and even of their wife).

My question... if you took pictures of them, why would you show your buddies? To me that's disrespectful and degrading to the woman, maybe even broke her trust of you.

Edit...
Let me add... They always say you can't tell.
So in reality they know its wrong

If she send me nude photos they would never be shown to anyone.

 

[We Never Know]

It's probably the same reason lots of young guys show each other the porn they have: it's something to bond over, to them. It could also be that the men who show each other nude pics of their wives are doing it to brag about their wives being hot.

But if guys see your wife's muffin, it isnt your own anymore...so to say.

 

[The Hammer]

But if guys see your wife's muffin, it isnt your own anymore...so to say.

It wasn't yours to begin with imo

 

[We Never Know]

It wasn't yours to begin with imo

Yes and no. If she gives her life to you, its your muffin. Don't be showing your friends

 

[The Hammer]

Yes and no. If she gives her life to you, its your muffin. Don't be showing your friends

The secrecy and shame I've never understood, we've all got the same parts. So to speak.

 

[We Never Know]

The secrecy and shame I've never understood, we've all got the same parts. So to speak.

Buy not everyone should see those parts that are "for your eyes only" in my opinion.

 

[The Hammer]

Buy not everyone should see those parts that are "for your eyes only" in my opinion.

Silly, imo. Look don't touch.

But I respect your opinion, it is more common then mine.

 

[We Never Know]

Silly, imo. Look don't touch.

But I respect your opinion, it is more common then mine.

"Window shopping is ok as long as you don't try it on"

 

[Heyo]

I've been married twice and have had plenty girlfriends throughout my life.

I never took pictures of them naked because the only picture(s) I needed were in my mind.

With that said I had a friend show me naked pictures of his current girlfriend he has on his cell phone(had this has happened several times with different people and even of their wife).

My question... if you took pictures of them, why would you show your buddies? To me that's disrespectful and degrading to the woman, maybe even broke her trust of you.

Edit...
Let me add... They always say you can't tell.
So in reality they know its wrong

I have taken photos of several women, some ex girlfriends, some just friends. Some I don't have permission to show and I won't. Some are allowed to share. They are usually products of photo sessions with the intent to take artful nude pictures, not just memories.

 

[VoidCat]

I've sent nudes to folk. I would be pissed if they showed them to someone else without my consent.

And if someone tried to show me a photo of someone without their consent I wouldnt want to see it. And I would want to warn the person who sent said photos to the person who showed me.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

It wasn't yours to begin with imo

Fixed it.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

I used to hang out with a guy who would show me polaroid nudes of his girlfriends. He's not really a good person, and he still doesn't treat his SOs/current spouse well, and he doesn't really respect them.

 

[VoidCat]

Fixed it.

I agree with both you and Hammer. Even if you married it aint the spouse's body. The husband or wife they may choose to have their bodies only be seen and played with by each other. But that person in the relationship is not owned by anyone. It's still their body.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

I agree with both you and Hammer. Even if you married it aint the spouse's body. The husband or wife they may choose to have their bodies only be seen and played with by each other. But that person in the relationship is not owned by anyone. It's still their body.

We really do need to snip out ideas of ownership and posession of another human in all ways we can. Even married neither person belongs to their spouse.