Naked pictures of your wife/girlfriend

[Wildswanderer]

Yes and no. If she gives her life to you, its your muffin. Don't be showing your friends[/QUOTE

We really do need to snip out ideas of ownership and posession of another human in all ways we can. Even married neither person belongs to their spouse.

Actually they should belong to each other by mutual commitment. Otherwise it's not a marriage.

 

[Wildswanderer]

The other issue is why are people so stupid as to send each other naked pictures of themselves?
I think that equals lack of self respect.

 

[VoidCat]

The other issue is why are people so stupid as to send each other naked pictures of themselves?
I think that equals lack of self respect.

Opposite actually. I did it to boost my self esteem and cuz the person I sent them to enjoyed it which made me happy. I personally do not lack self respect.

 

[VoidCat]

Opposite actually. I did it to boost my self esteem and cuz the person I sent them to enjoyed it which made me happy. I personally do not lack self respect.

@Wildswanderer
Also I have no shame. I love my body and respect it quite a lot. I find it funny you think me feeling taking photos of myself is disrespectful to myself cuz if I had no self respect I would likely hate my body. In reality I felt confident enough to send such pics

 

[Revoltingest]

@Wildswanderer
Also I have no shame. I love my body and respect it quite a lot. I find it funny you think me feeling taking photos of myself is disrespectful to myself cuz if I had no self respect I would likely hate my body. In reality I felt confident enough to send such pics

I suspect prudery is behind some of the criticism.
Some feel that taking such selfies is wrong for
them, then others must feel the same way.
I only know about what people say for themselves.

 

[Wildswanderer]

@Wildswanderer
Also I have no shame. I love my body and respect it quite a lot. I find it funny you think me feeling taking photos of myself is disrespectful to myself cuz if I had no self respect I would likely hate my body. In reality I felt confident enough to send such pics

If a person doesn't want to appear naked before the world they must hate their body? I don't think so.

 

[VoidCat]

If a person doesn't want to appear naked before the world they must hate their body? I don't think so.

Before the world? Where did I say that? I sent it to one person. I trust them enough not to send it to anyone else or show it to folk without my consent.

And of course you don't have to even do that much and still could love your body. Im just saying it's stupid to accuse someone of a lack of self respect for something like that.

If you dont want to take pics of your body and send it to your wife or whoever fine. Up to you. More power to you

 

[Wildswanderer]

Before the world? Where did I say that? I sent it to one person. I trust them enough not to send it to anyone else or show it to folk without my consent.

And of course you don't have to even do that much and still could love your body. Im just saying it's stupid to accuse someone of a lack of self respect for something like that.

If you dont want to take pics of your body and send it to your wife or whoever fine. Up to you. More power to you

And it's gullible to assume it will never be shared with the world on some porn site... Which I'm sure has happened to thousands of women.

 

[VoidCat]

And it's gullible to assume it will never be shared with the world on some porn site... Which I'm sure has happened to thousands of women.

*rolls eyes* oh so just saying...hypotheiclly...

If your wife sent you a picture of herself nude you'd post it on a porn site. You would abuse her trust? She should never actually trust you to respect her?

 

[VoidCat]

*rolls eyes* oh so just saying...hypotheiclly...

If your wife sent you a picture of herself nude you'd post it on a porn site. You would abuse her trust? She should never actually trust you to respect her?

Please. See not everyone is a ******** who can't be trusted. And if someone trusted someone like that it's not their fault if it ends up online. It's the person who posted it. If the girl I sent it to posts it without my consent elsewhere that's on them. Not me. And I could actually get it where it's hard to find did you know that? Both Google and Bing have policies in place that all you have to do is fill out a form if someone posts revenge porn as its called when someone posts something without your consent and they will hide the links. At least they did don't know if they still do. Either way it wouldn't be my fault I trusted them. It would be theirs for abusing my trust. This reminds me of the arguments folk have blaming women for rape. Why were you are a bar drinking? Why did you wear that? Nevermind it was the guy who did wrong not the woman.

 

[Revoltingest]

Please. See not everyone is a ******** who can't be trusted. And if someone trusted someone like that it's not their fault if it ends up online. It's the person who posted it. If the girl I sent it to posts it without my consent elsewhere that's on them. Not me. And I could actually get it where it's hard to find did you know that? Both Google and Bing have policies in place that all you have to do is fill out a form if someone posts revenge porn as its called when someone posts something without your consent and they will hide the links. At least they did don't know if they still do. Either way it wouldn't be my fault I trusted them. It would be theirs for abusing my trust. This reminds me of the arguments folk have blaming women for rape. Why were you are a bar drinking? Why did you wear that? Nevermind it was the guy who did wrong not the woman.

Life has its risks.
We do things with benefits greater than the risks.
Everyone evaluates them differently.

 

[VoidCat]

Life has its risks.
We do things with benefits greater than the risks.
Everyone evaluates them differently.

It's not like i sent them to a stranger I knew the girl for over 3 years. I genuinely trust them not to expose me like that

 

[Revoltingest]

It's not like i sent them to a stranger I knew the girl for over 3 years. I genuinely trust them not to expose me like that

Sounds fine to me.

 

[VoidCat]

Sounds fine to me.

Besides there's already feet pictures I willingly posted online on some site. My problem isn't that it could end up online. I'm worried about my body ending up online with my legal name attached to it and it ruining my professional life.

 

[Revoltingest]

Besides there's already feet pictures I willingly posted online on some site. My problem isn't that it could end up online. I'm worried about my body ending up online with my legal name attached to it and it ruining my professional life.

Be careful.
When I post pix of my engines on line,
I'm never in them. I like anonymity.

 

[Guitar's Cry]

The other issue is why are people so stupid as to send each other naked pictures of themselves?

Sexual thrill and excitement. It's all risk assessment. I don't think me sending nudes of myself to my wife (for which I need my extra wide angle camera, by the way!) is stupid. More playful and fun.

And it gives the NSA something to look forward to every Tuesday.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

Its not about ownership. When I say "your" wife it doesn't mean you own her.

Your own, your muffin, for your eyes, those words imply she and her body are yours and not hers. It was never your muffin. It's hers and hers alone.

 

[Shadow Wolf]

the subject:

My nephew just played that song the other night. It reminds me of various Robin Willaims bits about how easily sexually amused men are, lmao.

 

[Wildswanderer]

*rolls eyes* oh so just saying...hypotheiclly...

If your wife sent you a picture of herself nude you'd post it on a porn site. You would abuse her trust? She should never actually trust you to respect her?

Not if I would do that she shouldn't... just because I wouldn't doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

 

[VoidCat]

Not if I would do that she shouldn't... just because I wouldn't doesn't mean it doesn't happen.

Oh I know it happens. But it's not the woman's fault for trusting someone