I've seen males, at work, on a floor with 30 people in visible sight say out loud (while talking to me), "see that chick over there? I would take her by the waist, bend her over that desk, and f*** the sh** out of her." And me, not offended, using my dry sense of humor, be like, "would you do that before or after your shift ends." And then some response like, "Oh, I'd do it now, but then I'd go to jail afterward." (followed by laughter). Now, granted they're saying this stuff under their breath and with full intent to have no one else, but me, hear it. But I honestly think I've heard something similar in the wide open workplace about 5 times in my life. Take any heterosexual, male co-worker out for a drink and start talking about women you work with, and yeah, I really do think most guys talk like this.
The guys who claim they don't are to me like that one character from "There's Something About Mary" who said he was an architect and passed himself off as having special needs. IOW, they're lying and are happy to be in a friend zone with ladies. How do I know this? Cause, I'm one of those type of guys. Ha. I honestly thought for a long time that being in friend zone was best way to get to know, respect women, perhaps marry them. But all the guys I currently know who are married (all of them) are routinely making comments about other women, and all the nasty stuff they'd like to do to them. If I call them out on this as in "would you really cheat on your wife," it does have them pause, reflect for a few moments and say, "no, I wouldn't." Hard to say 100% which is more accurate, but I do think, as a guy, that most guys like to talk a game that they can't actually follow up on. And clearly there are guys who walk the talk, ya know, playas.