Following the sunnah is the same as following the Prophet. There is no difference between the two. If there is any difference it is mere in your interpretation of how to follow the Prophet. Quran 3:31 clearly says that if you love God, follow the Prophet.
No , there is a big difference between those two . Muhammad with his own Sunnah (Human Muhammad) and Muhammad with the message (Qur'an) of ALLAH , swt (Messenger Muhammad) are completely different person . It is not my personal opinion rather clarified by Almighty ALLAH , Himself in Qur'an . Read the following verse :
[34:50]
قل ان ضللت فانما اضل على نفسي وان اهتديت فبما يوحي الي ربي انه سميع قريب
[034:050] Say: "If I am astray, I only stray to the loss of my own soul: but if I receive guidance, it is because of the Wahi of my Lord to me: it is He Who hears all things, and is (ever) near."
The above verse depicts Prophet Muhammad as :
Muhammad + Wahi (Quran) = A perfect Muhammad
(1)
Muhammad Wahi (Quran) = An erroneous Muhammad
.(2)
(1) can also be expressed as : Muhammad + Message (Quran) = Messenger Muhammad
(3)
(2) can also be expressed as : Muhammad Message (Quran) =Ordinary human Muhammad with his sunnah
(4)
In verse 34:50 Muhammad of (1)+(3) is اهتديت (guided) because of
يوحي الي ربي(Wahi from his Lord)
In verse 34:50 Muhammad of (2)+(3) is اضل (erred) because of نفسي (His own self , i.e., his Suunah )
Following few examples will establish the facts that indeed the Prophet Muhammad made mistakes and erred because his own Sunnah <His own action/opinion/words> .
Example from Qur'an :
01.
[008:067] It is not fitting for an apostle that he should have prisoners of war until he hath thoroughly subdued the land. Ye look for the temporal goods of this world; but God looketh to the Hereafter: And God is Exalted in might, Wise.
[008:068] Had it not been for a previous ordainment from God, a severe penalty would have reached you for the (ransom) that ye took.
[008:069] But (now) enjoy what ye took in war, lawful and good: but fear God: for God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
In the above verses Almighty ALLAH (swt) clearly showed HIS dislike about the strategy of the Prophet Muhammad concerning the captives of war . It unpleased GOD (swt) such a way that HE even threatened Adhabe Azeem ( Great Punishment) for the Prophet and his companions for taking such wrong decision.
02.
[066:001] O Prophet! Why holdest thou to be forbidden that which God has made lawful to thee? Thou seekest to please thy consorts. But God is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful.
[066:002] God has already ordained for you, (O men), the dissolution of your oaths (in some cases): and God is your Protector, and He is Full of Knowledge and Wisdom.
The above noble verse is another example where Prophet made a gross mistake by exchanging Halal to haram just to please his wives . Almighty ALLAH (swt) found it objectionable and rectified as well as warned him . Should we need to follow everything the Prophet did/said , we could swap around the haram and halal and still we would be rewarded for performing the Sunnah . It is very clear that such a horrendous act cant be accepted by Almighty GOD . Rather HE, the Exalted warned :
[016:116] But say not for any false thing that your tongues may put forth,- This is lawful , and this is forbidden, so as to ascribe false things to God. For those who ascribe false things to God, will never prosper.
03.
Now let see the famous incident of Abasa :
[080:001] (The Prophet) frowned and turned away,
[080:002] Because there came to him the blind man (interrupting).
[080:003] But what could tell thee but that perchance he might grow (in spiritual understanding)?-
[080:004] Or that he might receive admonition, and the teaching might profit him?
[080:005] As to one who regards Himself as self-sufficient,
[080:006] To him dost thou attend;
[080:007] Though it is no blame to thee if he grow not (in spiritual understanding).
[080:008] But as to him who came to thee striving earnestly,
[080:009] And with fear (in his heart),
[080:010] Of him wast thou unmindful.
In the above set of verses GOD almighty criticized the Prophet for ignoring or belittling a blind man . This is a general instruct to the prophet as well as for us not to show any disrespect or attitude of ignorance to the poor or weak people while flattering the rich and strong ones . Therefore we should not follow this Sunnah of the Prophet , not all .
Examples from Hadith :
01.
Aisha reported that two persons visited Allahs Messenger and both of them talked about a thing, of which I am not aware, but that annoyed him and he invoked curse upon both of them and hurled malediction, and when they went out I said: Allahs Messenger, the good would reach everyone but it would not reach these two. He said: Why so? I said:
Because you have invoked curse and hurled malediction upon both of them. He said: Dont you know that I have made condition with my Lord saying thus:
O Allah, I am a human being and that for a Muslim upon whom I invoke curse or hurl malediction make it a source of purity and reward? (Sahih Muslim, Book 032,
Number 6285)
02.
Abu Huraira reported Allahs Apostle as saying: O Allah, I make a covenant with Thee against which Thou wouldst never go.
I am a human being and thus for a Muslim whom I give any harm or whom I scold or upon whom I invoke a curse or whom i beat, make this a source of blessing, purification and nearness to Thee on the Day of Resurrection. (Sahih Muslim, Book 032,
Number 6290)
03.
Salim, the freed slave of Nasriyyin, said: I heard Abu Huraira as saying that he heard Allahs Messenger as saying:
O Allah, Muhammad is a human being. I lose my temper just as human beings lose temper, and I have held a covenant with Thee which Thou wouldst not break:
For a believer whom I give any trouble or invoke curse or beat, make that an expiation (of his sins and a source of) his nearness to Thee on the Day of Resurrection. (Sahih Muslim, Book 032,
Number 6293)
04.
Anas b. Malik reported that there was an orphan girl with Umm Sulaim (who was the mother of Anas). Allahs Messenger saw that orphan girl and said: O, it is you; you have grown young. may you not advance in years! That slave-girl returned to Umm Sulaim weeping. Umm Sulaim said: O daughter, what is the matter with you? She said: Allahs Apostle has invoked curse upon me that I should not grow in age and thus I would never grow in age, or she said, in my (length) of life. Umm Sulaim went out wrapping her head-dress hurriedly until she met Allahs Messenger. He said to her: Umm Sulaim, what is the matter with you? She said:
Allahs Apostle, you invoked curse upon my orphan girl. He said: Umm Sulaim, what is that? She said: She (the orphan girl) states you have cursed her saying that she might not grow in age or grow in life. Allahs Messenger smiled and then said: Umm Sulaim, dont you know that I have made this term with my Lord. And the term with my Lord is that I said to Him:
I am a human being and I am pleased just as a human being is pleased and I lose temper just as a human being loses temper, so for any person from amongst my Ummah whom I curse and he in no way deserves it, let that, O Lord, be made a source of purification and purity and nearness to (Allah) on the Day of Resurrection. (Sahih Muslim, Book 032,
Number 6297)
Have a good day .