I've tried meditation, commended by various of my friends. Works for them, not for me, I found - just boring. Not that I didn't learn a couple of useful relaxation techniques though.
That depends what type of practice you tried. Not everyone responds the same to the different techniques. There are sitting meditations, standing, walking, meditation with movement (Tai Chi for instance), meditation with music, meditation in silence, etc, etc, etc. The key is not the practice, but actually entering into meditative states, however you can get there. It is in the state itself, where these things begin to open. Trust me, when you are there, it's anything but boring! Let the light show begin!
And then you move into different stages, deeper and deeper levels. "Relaxation" is a side effect, but relatively minor in comparison to what goes on in there.
Here's an interesting and accurate discussion about those stages you may find interesting:
STAGES OF MEDITATION
No, it simply means, change to a lower gear and keep going. Infinity is a maths problem and the clever but tendentious Cantor tried to use it to find a place for a god to live. Since there are no infinities in reality, you could argue he succeeded.
You believe there is a boundary around all manifest reality? Then what is beyond that boundary? Nothing? Isn't that "nothing" infinite then? A way to think about this is that all manifest reality is like drawings or dots seen on a piece of paper. Without that paper, the dots would not exist. Without light there would be no dark, and vice versa. Infinity is that paper. This is familiar in the Buddhist description of Emptiness. In nondual terms, "Emptiness is not other to form, and form is not other to Emptiness". That Emptiness is the Infinite. Infinite exists at every single point along any given line. It's not 'out there' at the end of it.
Maybe not yet anyway.
It certainly does for many others who have taken it to its limits, like Einstein, Heisenberg, Plank, and so forth. Here's a collection of their writings that go into that very thing. There really is no conflict between these things, only limits, possibilities, and the great Mystery itself we find ourselves within, and within us all.
Quantum Questions: Mystical Writings of the World's Great Physicists: Ken Wilber: 9781570627682: Amazon.com: Books
At the very least, then, we have no idea what, exactly, is real. And that defines the job in hand ─ find out!
What comes to mind here is the saying that the meaning of one's life is not found at some destination point, but the whole path itself, the journey itself is the destination. If you're trying to "find out" the meaning to the big questions of existence, what do you imagine happens when you find it? Poof, you blink out of existence? My point is, rather than chasing that carrot on a stick out in front of you, just stop and reach out with your hand and eat the damn thing where your standing right now. You don't have to 'arrive' at an understanding to just be now, in the moment. That's "knowing" without knowing.
You really are a romantic, aren't you!
Guilty.
I'm also a pragmatist too, but am a mystic and poet at heart.
Ahm, I wouldn't have put it like that. I'd have said that objective reality's on the other side of my skin, wherever I am.
But isn't that reality part of you and you part of it? Rather than dividing it up into dualistic terms, inside and outside, subject and object, what it really comes down to just participation. You can't logically say that there is a reality "out there" outside yourself. That's really only just a construct of the mind, ultimately. We experience ourselves as distinctly other, but that is ultimately an illusion of the mind to believe that reflects the actual reality of us.
Cogito ergo sum? Yes, actually. I think Descartes' statement is not understood very well by most. It goes to what I am saying. That every construction of the mind, everything we think or believe to be true can be doubted or deconstructed to the point where everything cannot be held to be true, except for the fact that there is someone doing the doubting. A term for that can be found in the mystical traditions of the Witness, or the Seer, that Subject doing the seeing. If we can't know the reality of anything else, we can know, or rest in the fact that I AM, I exist.
Then from there, all the rest becomes understood as relative truths. They are relative to our own set of human eyes we are using. So dualism, is real, because that is our relative reality as humans. It is not however absolute Truth.
I'll start by pointing out that by your own statement you can't give me an example without defining it.
I will grant this. I have an image in my mind, an impression of the experience that I try to put words around it. But I also understand that that imagine in my mind, is in fact just that: an image of my mind of an experience. I'm not defining the 'transcendent' in this case as "this", but rather taking various impressions of it that my mind creates and talk about those, as 'fingers pointing' to something wholly beyond my thoughts or impressions. I can create any number of images and talk about it any number of ways, but the key I recognize that my thought it not defining what it is! If I do that, and the temptation is there, then it is not longer open, but
closed. I reduce God, in other words, to an idol of the mind, a reflection of myself as the Absolute. If you come to the end of Infinity, it's now finite. God is not longer God.
Here's an interesting quote from the mystic Meister Eckhart that points to this. "I pray God make me free of God that I may know God in [his] unconditional being". You see the inherent paradox here? Move beyond the limits of our ideas, into something that exists wholly beyond their abilities to comprehend. Call that Openness, whatever you may.
... then start by getting your sticks in a line. What am I trying to do here? What do I know? What do I suspect I don't know? Am I the problem? What's my first hypothesis? How to test it?
Oh yes, do all that, then in the end when you then trying to examine all those and deconstruct them, what are you left with? That's what I'm talking about. "God beyond God", to quote Eckhart again.
No doubt about it. We've evolved to interpret sense data in quite specific ways that aren't part of the landscape, as it were. (I poemed it once.) The idea that this body of atoms is distinct from the other bodies of atoms around it and should be called a 'tree' is an interpretation. That another body is also a tree, and that this makes 'two trees', are likewise conceptual takes we automatically impose on the data ie by extracting meaning we impose meaning. The first step towards increasing objectivity is to be aware of this.
Alight then. We are completely in agreement here! I am saying however that there is an end to dialectical reasoning. That goal of objectivity begins to fuzz out and blur and blend aways into holistic patterns in which distinctions like these fall no longer suffice. This is when you move into paradoxical thought, or Integral modes of consciousness as Jean Gebser describes. If you feel so inclined to learn about that, if you don't know it, I think this presentation I came across recently will be helpful and enlightening. It's over 40 minutes long, but if it's interesting to you I'd say it's worth watching:
(I'm hoping you do, since it's completely fascinating to me!)
Yes and no to that one. External reality is the source of my air, water, food, friends, shelter &c. I survive or fail in it, and that's why I've evolved as I am.
Yes, this is true. This is a valid dualistic perception. But it is a perception. All is One, is also a perception, Monism in other words. Nonduality on the other hand embraces both, "all is one, and all is many" paradoxically. Here's another great explaination of what this "pardoxical" nondualism actually is, clearing up a lot of popular misunderstandings.
https://ngakpa.org/library/not-duality-is-not-non-duality/
Here's a great quote from it:
The key seems to be not taking the aggressive approach of doing away with or denying duality. Instead dualistic conceptions are rendered unproblematic. They are only problematic as long as they are taken as definite reference points. When they are experienced as opened ended reflections or “appearances,” then they can simply arise and dissolve as one aspect of the texture of experience. If we do not grasp onto dualistic conceptions, if we do not revolve around them, if we do not identify with them, if we do not build our world around them, then they are not problematic. The practices of our path aim at getting to know the non-dual texture of experience within which dualistic conceptions arise. The more we are able to communicate with that non-dual texture then the less problematic dualistic conceptions are. They can simply come and go. They can impart their intelligence and even reflect non-duality more starkly by indicating it to us when we have trained. It is a more ambiguous space to allow dualistic conception to exist than is monism. In monism everything is defined, tidy, captured in exalted spiritual language. In non-duality, both monism and dualism exist as temporary partial reflections of reality – flavors of the moment.The key seems to be meditation practice, there is the experience where non-dual experience and dualistic conceptions could take place simultaneously and non-problematically, the situation is self-liberated.
This is what I am getting at. In just reading this again, I see I have been touching on all these points all along in discussion with you. And yes... somewhere in all this we can get to this stuff about the Trinity.
There's a certain groundwork of understanding that you have to look at it with, and that groundwork is nonduality. We can get to that later if you wish.
Why do we need this 'god' notion? Man does the seeing, feeling, thinking, doing. Man gets excited or bored, delighted or appalled, loves or rejects. It was always up to us and it still is.
And the answer is, for me anyway, that "God" represents the "edge" of a dualistic reality. I refer to God as "the Face we put upon the Infinite". It's that "image" of our minds in a dualistic framework that objectifies Reality in order for our minds to hold and examine it, like an ornament in our hands reflecting the rays of light hitting it. God is not that ornament, but shows the Light through it. Beyond that Face, is the Mystery, out of which all of this arises and returns. "God beyond God".
Of course, if god is an uncomfortable word to use because it sounds like Zeus or something, feel free to use some other word that conveys that same transcendent quality.