To the best of my understanding, the claim that same sex marriage is somehow "forced" upon people comes from a significant mismatch of conceptions between various groups.
Many people, including a very high percentage of same sex marriage supporters, understand a marriage to be a commitment between willing adults with certain civil and legal consequences. As well shown in this thread, in that sense there can't be such a thing as a forced marriage, regardless of specific genders.
By and large, opponents of same sex marriage seem to have an alternative view of the meaning and role of marriage. By that view, marriage is not an entirely private matter, and married people have some degree of duty to conform to external expectations, including fulfilling some fairly rigid social roles.
While I think I can see the rationale of this second perspective and even sympathise with it somewhat, ultimately there is no moral defense of the denial of same sex marriage rights.
People must learn to be at peace with the existence of homosexual couples and their willingness to commit to married relatioships. There is simply no excuse to refuse that, although I do acknowledge that many a person has a hard time accepting the reality and legitimacy of homosexual relationships, to the point of sometimes attempting to hide their existence from their own children.
Whether the law acknowledges that is of decidedly minor importance.
Many people, including a very high percentage of same sex marriage supporters, understand a marriage to be a commitment between willing adults with certain civil and legal consequences. As well shown in this thread, in that sense there can't be such a thing as a forced marriage, regardless of specific genders.
By and large, opponents of same sex marriage seem to have an alternative view of the meaning and role of marriage. By that view, marriage is not an entirely private matter, and married people have some degree of duty to conform to external expectations, including fulfilling some fairly rigid social roles.
While I think I can see the rationale of this second perspective and even sympathise with it somewhat, ultimately there is no moral defense of the denial of same sex marriage rights.
People must learn to be at peace with the existence of homosexual couples and their willingness to commit to married relatioships. There is simply no excuse to refuse that, although I do acknowledge that many a person has a hard time accepting the reality and legitimacy of homosexual relationships, to the point of sometimes attempting to hide their existence from their own children.
Whether the law acknowledges that is of decidedly minor importance.