I think we are circling around on this one. Can I reiterate lest we take one scripture and create a narrative that isn't consistent with other writings of Paul?
Context: 1 Cor 7: 1 Now concerning the things whereof ye wrote unto me:
- We don't know what things they "wrote unto me", so we don't know the context of celibacy vs marriage
- Elders - Titus 1:6 If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, (no mention of celibacy)
- Bishops 1 Tim 3:2 A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife. (no mention of celibacy)
- Marriage Eph 5:31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. (Not stay single)
So I wouldn't agree with your position.
No consistency of celibacy.