Updated.
Please ignore the previous post similar to this one.
Interesting question! Can you say more about the distinction you're making here? Perhaps with an example comparing and contrasting what I proposed vs. what you proposed?
Let's see... your expression "they must assimilate and embrace secular values" sound like that the
should do exactly what the secular values tell, like for example, Muslim immigrant women to Germany should not wear a head scarf (hijab) just because women in Germany don't wear it, even if there is no law against it.
Mine "respect them and abide by their rules" means that if there is a rule enforced, it has to be followed, like if there is a rule banning praying in congregation in public places, Muslim immigrants should not do it and look for somewhere that allows it by the rules.
So, do mean that Muslim women living in non Muslim countries
should never wear hijab, or do you mean that if there is a law against it, they should respect it and abide to it?
That is the crux of the matter, indeed.
What is understood by respect and abiding? How reasonable can or should those rules be respected?
To the extent that many Muslims may feel that the world owes the Qur'an and its faith the opportunity to eventually overtake the whole world... they must be frustrated, often and hard.
Respect should not translate into refusal to criticize even when criticism is sorely needed. Nor are any and all rules necessarily worth of respect.
I think that who goes to a community, should by no means try to impose their values in that community. It is okay to practice the values they want, but not if there are rules against it. I would find a spot and pray in public in a foreign community, but if I knew the law does not allow that, I should not do it and go look for a place where it is allowed. If I don't like that, I should leave. No Muslim has the right to stop people in a nude beach in France from doing what they do, for example. I mean, I wouldn't
That's for the two lines of your post.
As for the rest, I don't think that the world owes the Quran anything. To the contrary, I think having different communities with different values (as a general idea) is a blessing from God so all kinds of people can find a place to go to.