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Yeah, the poly people I've met have often impressed me with their integrity and communication skills. I waffle a little on the subject myself, and go through phases, but my husband and I regularly talk about our boundaries as we grow and change together, and as our relationship evolves.
As it sits, it's quite nice to know he has no desire to restrict me from anything I might enjoy in life, even if that's a bit of romance with someone else. I admire that, and most of my reservations about returning the favor are rooted in my own insecurity, which I'm working on.
Yes there are a wealth of medical studies out there that tell us that having multiple partners increases risk of STD's. And not just having concurrent or simultaneous multiple partners but having multiple partners period increases risk.
Yes there are a wealth of medical studies out there that tell us that having multiple partners increases risk of STD's. And not just having concurrent or simultaneous multiple partners but having multiple partners period increases risk.
Yeah the polyamorous are all saints, they exceed us mere mortals in integrity and communication skills.
Personal anecdotes are not evidence.
You are mistaken, trusting one person to not cheat is more logical than trusting 15 people to not cheat, specially when 15 people like to have all kinds of partners.
15 partners will never fill the desires of new adventures that extra partners demands.
you logic is flawed, because man is flawed to begin with and is far from perfection.
as CC said, Polyamory is not superpowers
adding more coals to the fire does not put the fire out, it only makes the fire hotter
Yeah the polyamorous are all saints, they exceed us mere mortals in integrity and communication skills.
Oh, and I bet you have a wealth of scientific studies to back your opinion, right?
yes, cant you understand.
I cant trust 1 person to not cheat
trusting 15 people who already admitted they like extra partners are more trusting.
cant you understand that?
I picked monogamy by accident, it's neither. I am a pretty monogamous person and most of my friends are very promiscuous. Even in long distance relationships i've been faithful.
Which doesn't matter when you're practicing safe sex and not sleeping with random people.
Wow, you people really don't get what polyamory is.
If you can't trust them, why would you want to be in a relationship with them in the first place?
Going out the door increases your risk of catching some kind of communicable disease . Guess we'd all better stay in forever.
There is a difference between polyamaory, and randomly sleeping with multiplpe partners, but if anecdotes are so weak, I shall offer sources.
Commitment in Polyamarous Relationships, Elaine Cook, 2005
Group Marriage: A Study of Contemporary Multilateral Marriage, Larry and Joan Constantine, 1974
Monogamy's Law: Compulsory Monogamy and Polyamorous Existence, Elizabeth F. Emens, 2004
yes, cant you understand.
I cant trust 1 person to not cheat
trusting 15 people who already admitted they like extra partners are more trusting.
cant you understand that?
Sure they are.
Personal anecdotes are really weak evidence.
Really really weak evidence. Almost a total lack of evidence. But not quite, or else there wouldn't be so much religion in the human situation.
Tom
That is not my reasoning, that is the reasoning of Polyamory and its completely contradictory.
That is not my reasoning, that is the reasoning of Polyamory and its completely contradictory.