CynthiaCypher
Well-Known Member
It is not more valid, it is just as valid.
You're obsessed with this idea of extra. but okay, let's go with it.
Fifteen people fall in love with each other and trust each other. (Let's just ignore how big that number is and how unlikely that is) Fifteen people then make vows to each other. They share their lives, they build up solid relationships, they prove their loyalty, they talk through issues.
How is that any less trustworthy, just because of the numbers involved?
And I never intended to suggest it was better, they should be treated the same.
Let us say that there is a 1 in 3 chance in any given relationship (monogamous or polyamorous) that infidelity will occur. Does not the risk of infidelity increase when you add additional partners to any relationship?