Hi waitasec
I've taken a few quotes that caught my eye as I scanned through the thread. I figured I'd have a go at answering them from my own perspective.
seems to me prayer is externalizing what is already internal...so i don't get it.
what is so important about externalizing what one feels internally to god...isn't it the same as externalizing the internal to oneself?
Words have power (assuming the prayer is spoken out loud, many people prefer silent prayer). Swearing for example helps relieve pain while tone of voice can radically alter the meaning of what you say. In the form of spoken prayer this can manifest as a confession, a plea, gratitude etc and essentially serves as a means of turning thoughts into a tangible "thing". For some people this serves to reinforce the power of the thought.
does one have to pray to show god they want his will?
isn't that already determined by how one acts or approaches the situation rather then what one says in a prayer?
Now I don't believe in fate as a linear concept, I think of it more as being a huge tree. Every one of the countless choices and external circumstances forms a new branch leading ultimately towards a new outcome. Prayer will thus alter your course on whatever particular branch you're currently on simply by being a choice to reflect on your situation.
This is a hideously complicated concept though so I may have to come back to it after a decent night's sleep
what is the point in ceremonial prayer?
Have you been involved in a ceremony? Not just out of duty or going through the motions, but actually putting everything of yourself into it? I ask that as a serious question and not as a cheap shot by the way.
is god more concerned about appearances rather than substance?
I would say no, but then I don't think of prayer as being for a deity's benefit. If you don't mean what you say or think then what benefit will it provide for you?
Incidentally this is the most common trap people fall into in both prayer and magic IMO. No matter how arcane a prayer or incantation may sound, if you don't
mean them then they're little more than a sequence of noises.