I must admit to not thinking of it that way before, but that said, if that's the case, is anything really a choice? Or are we just a product of our experiences, events, environments etc? Religion says we have free will, do atheism say we don't?
Atheism doesn't say neither.
Honestly, I can't say for sure if we have free will or not. My stance is that the term "free" and "will" somehow contradict each other.
By the way, do all religions say that we have free will or is it something more specific to Christianity or special versions of Christianity? I'm thinking of Calvinism or Buddhism etc.
When it comes to experiences and such, we are for sure products of our biology and environment. Perhaps we have some small freedom in there, but I can't say. I know that many things about me comes from who I am and where I come from more than what I currently can freely choose. When I think I freely choose something, isn't it based on some kind of preferences? For instance, if I pick chocolate ice cream instead of vanilla, is it because of conditioning or that I actually at that moment don't have any preconception guiding me? If I can just choose whichever, isn't it just random?
I can say the same for homosexuality....I actually believe it's generally who they are, and their love is just as loving as heterosexual love. I believe they are fantastic parents, they should have the same rights as heterosexual couples...marriage etc....do I think it's right? No....I have tried, but I can't. Seeing a homosexual couple together gives me the same reaction as eating marmite. (Sorry I realise that may come across really badly)...it's not even to do with my faith. But I bet many atheists would probably say this is a choice I make.
Yes, it's your choice!
Kiddin'. Your reaction is probably because of your history, experiences, upbringing, etc, and biological preconditions too of course. But do you choose to feel that way?
Anyway, when it comes to choice, sometimes I think of it that we have a choice that we make now, even if it's based on our experience, our choice now will affect our current experience which will direct our choices in the future. It's like we're on a boat going down a wild river and we can only watch the landscape go by but we can't steer the boat.
(I'm blabbering again.
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