S&M

[McBell]

I don't generally wear my uniform to bed. Jeeeez

So is it more majorly?
Or perhaps privately?

 

[Mister Silver]

So it doesn't turn Mrs YmirGF on, then?

I thought he was gay.........

 

[McBell]

So is it more majorly?
Or perhaps privately?

I wish I knew how to spell sergeant...

 

[oldbadger]

So how do you repent of that?

I wouldn't know how the honourable member would repent of that, but since most country churches around here hold holy communion at 8am on Sunday mornings it gives huge potential of what might 'go on' on Saturday Nights.

 

[oldbadger]

I thought he was gay.........

Oh ...... me and my big key-board.
I'm a t--t, and I admit it.

 

[ChristineM]

Sadism and Masochism

The practice of using pain as a sexualstimulant. Some variants of S&M include


* Breast torture
* Spanking
* Whipping
* Blood play
* Vaginal torture
* 'CBT,' (torture of the penis, scrotum and testicles)
* Asphyxiation
* Hot wax

Slave and Master

Even as an atheist wouldn't you say that this sexuality is intrinsically disordered and wrong, even if both parties are enjoying it?

Wouldn't you agree that both the sadist and a masochist who enjoy these fetishes need serious help?

What do you think causes a person to have these fetishes?

No, i wouldn't agree it requires complete trust in your partner, an emotion that is key to a strong relationship. For that reason alone i will defend those who freely and willingly partake in s&m or any other sexual deviation in privacy to enjoy their personal time in any way they choose while frowning at those to wish so spoil the enjoyment of others simply because they themselves don't enjoy that deviation.

What causes it? Here are a couple of articles in Psychology Today

An Inside Look at S&M

The Pleasure of Pain

 

[Spiderman]

If the two people involved enjoy it, is it not you projecting how you would personally feel in the situation onto one of them?

Yes

 

[Mister Silver]

Yes

I kindly thank you for your honesty.

 

[Spiderman]

No, i wouldn't agree it requires complete trust in your partner, an emotion that is key to a strong relationship. For that reason alone i will defend those who freely and willingly partake in s&m or any other sexual deviation in privacy to enjoy their personal time in any way they choose while frowning at those to wish so spoil the enjoyment of others simply because they themselves don't enjoy that deviation.

What causes it? Here are a couple of articles in Psychology Today

An Inside Look at S&M

The Pleasure of Pain

I was mistaken... My bad!

 

[Rival]

I wouldn't know how the honourable member would repent of that, but since most country churches around here hold holy communion at 8am on Sunday mornings it gives huge potential of what might 'go on' on Saturday Nights.

Lol. Not that I attend Church. Would need to make that a Synagogue. No idea what I'm repenting of still!

 

[Spiderman]

Anyway, I think we would all agree that it's a wrong and disordered if the person longs to do it against someone else's will.

 

[DavidFirth]

Lol. Not that I attend Church. Would need to make that a Synagogue. No idea what I'm repenting of still!

Well, I'm not surprised.

 

[Mister Silver]

Well, I'm not surprised.

Neither am I when it comes to you.

 

[DavidFirth]

Neither am I when it comes to you.

 

[ChristineM]

Anyway, I think we would all agree that it's a wrong and disordered if the person longs to do it against someone else's will.

I don't see longing as a problem, the thought police are not here yet although Trump and May would wish otherwise

However, actually forcing your will on another changes it from sex to violation.

 

[Jesster]

While I'm not really into any unusual kinks like this, I have friends who are. They're actually great people who live happy and healthy lives. The only thing causing harm here is judgement from others.

 

[Spiderman]

While I'm not really into any unusual kinks like this, I have friends who are. They're actually great people who live happy and healthy lives. The only thing causing harm here is judgement from others.

Thank you, and my apology for judging

 

[YmirGF]

So it doesn't turn Mrs YmirGF on, then?

Mrs YmirGF? No, but the pool boys aren't really into spandex (much). *snort*

So is it more majorly?
Or perhaps privately?

It is indeed mood based. Sometime, I just lie there flicking my tail to and fro seductively.

 

[Deidre]

I like mild forms of BDSM with my husband, but we both have immense trust with each other, and as long as there is respect and trust, I see nothing wrong with consenting adults doing this.

 

[oldbadger]

Lol. Not that I attend Church. Would need to make that a Synagogue. No idea what I'm repenting of still!

Hi.... and of course.
When I was about 5yrs old, when I would walk the 1 mile to town with my Grandmother and elder sister, if I would stop and let them walk on, and away from me, almost out of sight, for some distance, I would get a tingling feeling in my genitals. They never called me to catch up, possibly because they knew that I would because I did this so often.
Dear oh dear..... I was a perv at 5.

These days I do seem to take part in some kind of S&M.
I make really really erotic and pervy suggestions to Mrs Badger, and then she slaps me. S&M.