Spoken like someone who doesn't have kids. :sarcastic
I don't need to have kids to know what kids are thinking. I've worked with plenty of kids of all ages throughout my whole life.
Remeber we were kids once too, all we have to do is think back at what we were thinking when the kid at school said to us, "You mean you still think Santa is real?".
I was in third grade. What an idiot I must have looked like to my peers. I was dopey spiritually, socially and mentally. My parents raised me up to be some sort of idiot who now knows better than to believe everything I see, hear and read. Lies are fed to us daily by the world. The Holy Ghost helps us to discern between the truth and the lies fed to us on a daily basis, in real life situations.
Don't assume your kids are thinking one thing, when they are thinking another.
Remember I work with teenagers and have been for the last 19 years, in the restaurant and take out food business, they (teenagers) don't share with their parents what they share with me, because they're not particularly interested in being judged or criticized by their parents for thinking or feeling a certain way. I've worked with all types of kids. I've seen some change for the better, others for the worst. I've heard and seen just about everything there is to hear and observe from teenagers and young adults first hand.
My wife and I ran a day care out of our home and have worked together in the Nursery, taught Primary, Young Men's and Elder's Quorum for years. I've heard all the various comments and thoughts of these various age groups, from toddlers to teenagers to young adults and adults. I've heard real questions and concerns from real kids, teenagers and adults.
I don't need to have kids to know what kids are thinking. They are more honest with those outside their immediate family because they aren't afraid of being judged as harshly, if at all.
Don't assume you know your kids. They won't tell their parents everything, but they'll tell their best friends everything or another trusted adult. One 14 year old girl I work with, the owner's daughter broke down and told us of some physical and verbal abuse she had experienced by her step father (not the owner who is her real father who has no clue of what she has to put up with). She said she had only told her best friend about it, then broke down and told us.
Parents have too much of a threatening tone for kids to open up to them. Don't assume you know your kids or that I don't know kids. I know kids well, especially teenagers, and like I've said before, I've worked with toddlers on up to the teenage years. I know kids, teenagers and adults as well as can be expected.
I know how fun young children can be and how challenging teenagers are and how skeptical adults are.