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Servants - yes or no?

I've been polite enuf to not dis you forr rambling, incoherent, snarky, & ill reasoned posts.
So I expect you to be kinder, & not bring up my many shortcomings. Sound fair?

Sure but you are going to have to explain how in a capitalist society being lazy and rich is causing no harm. I present no argument for you to nitpick because you presented the argument that being lazy and rich is not harmful and as I see that obviously as false you are looking to me to state why I stated that and abandoning your original argument. Which is just expected... maybe you drank too much that night? Who knows?

"Socialism" is the state owning the means of production. It does not apply here.

Really? Tell me more. Oddly I explain this viewpoint and offer you some references... You can ignore that though and just call me snarky?

I've been polite enuf to not dis you forr rambling, incoherent, snarky, & ill reasoned posts.

Yep. So incoherent it warranted a reply by you and a reply that addressed nothing presented and asked for what was already provided. You suck at character assassination and ad homs... Try logic, you are much better there IMHO.
 

LongGe123

Active Member
I'm always very careful when labelling a society as "capitalist" or "socialist" - because usually the ones we claim are totally capitalist are actually more socialist than the ones who claim to be socialist, and...vice versa...? China claims to be socialist but is in fact the most materialistic, consumerist and self-centered nation on the entire planet. And countries like the UK and France are dubbed capitalist oppressors and yet demonstrate much more socialistic qualities than ANY nation claiming to be socialist. To borrow a phrase from family guy, it's all just a casserole of nonsense.

If you're argument is going to hinge on these kinds of polarized views of the world, they're always going to be deeply flawed. That's why I've been asking you why you lump so many kinds of people together as one entity and claim you're being logical, when it's clear that you're not.

If you're so sick of people not addressing your points, then perhaps just put them in clearer terms so that us lowly peasants might not be so foxed by the subtle nuances that you are clearly so proud of.
 
I'm always very careful when labelling a society as "capitalist" or "socialist" - because usually the ones we claim are totally capitalist are actually more socialist than the ones who claim to be socialist, and...vice versa...? China claims to be socialist but is in fact the most materialistic, consumerist and self-centered nation on the entire planet. And countries like the UK and France are dubbed capitalist oppressors and yet demonstrate much more socialistic qualities than ANY nation claiming to be socialist. To borrow a phrase from family guy, it's all just a casserole of nonsense.

If you're argument is going to hinge on these kinds of polarized views of the world, they're always going to be deeply flawed. That's why I've been asking you why you lump so many kinds of people together as one entity and claim you're being logical, when it's clear that you're not.

If you're so sick of people not addressing your points, then perhaps just put them in clearer terms so that us lowly peasants might not be so foxed by the subtle nuances that you are clearly so proud of.

I quoted my arguments for context and I would invite you to do the same rather than rambling. You are asking who? You are logically addressing what? Who is sick of what and why? If you want me to respond provide an argument as I have no idea what this post adds to the discussion.
 

LongGe123

Active Member
I'm asking YOU to, in a single short post, summarize your position, sans nuance. Let's get Yorkshire about this, just spit it out and stop sniping.
 
I'm asking YOU to, in a single short post, summarize your position, sans nuance. Let's get Yorkshire about this, just spit it out and stop sniping.

I thought for a moment that perhaps I was unclear and I was being unfair but than I reviewed my posts in this thread and can't imagine how you don't see my position.

Lets do that listening drill where you state what you think I am trying to say and I have to respond and tell you either you got it dead on or express where I think you might be going wrong. (Active listening?)

Sans Nuance is an odd requirement imho but if you can figure out what I am trying to say I will make a go of it. ;)
 

LongGe123

Active Member
OK, so when you're ready, just summarize. IF you want I'll go first...you know what. I'll go first. My position on this entire issue, from the OP to now.

1) It is a fallacy to polarize and generalize groups in society the way that the OP does. It is unfair and inaccurate to claim that anyone with domestic servants is doing some inherently immoral.

2) Provded employees are treated with the dignity and respect that all people deserve, and are compensated fairly, and given the flexibility they need to do their jobs effectively as well as in such a way that doesn't give them difficulty in their personal lives, then it's hard if not impossible to put up any argument denying the people the right to hiring employees.

3) Hiring a domestic worker follows the exact same principle as hiring any other employee to do any other job. There is a job that someone wants doing, and they seek someone to do it in exchange for money and whatever else. IMO, there is no moral question mark over this practice.

And that's basically it. It's very simplified, but that's my position on this whole issue.
 
OK, so when you're ready, just summarize. IF you want I'll go first...you know what. I'll go first. My position on this entire issue, from the OP to now.

1) It is a fallacy to polarize and generalize groups in society the way that the OP does. It is unfair and inaccurate to claim that anyone with domestic servants is doing some inherently immoral.

2) Provded employees are treated with the dignity and respect that all people deserve, and are compensated fairly, and given the flexibility they need to do their jobs effectively as well as in such a way that doesn't give them difficulty in their personal lives, then it's hard if not impossible to put up any argument denying the people the right to hiring employees.

3) Hiring a domestic worker follows the exact same principle as hiring any other employee to do any other job. There is a job that someone wants doing, and they seek someone to do it in exchange for money and whatever else. IMO, there is no moral question mark over this practice.

And that's basically it. It's very simplified, but that's my position on this whole issue.

You have accurately portrayed a viewpoint you can convince others of. I think I have articulated that there are good cases for hiring servants and bad servants and tried to explain why. You are generalizing my nuanced view to support your view. Your first point is an argument with the OP and not with me.

Your second point is false and rationalization. It relies upon a personal view on what people think fair compensation is and falls apart when compared to people who make billions a year compared to people who make minimum wage. Ultimately you added a lot of words for your own benefit and not for mine. I get people paying servants what they think is fair while getting paid far more and considering that fair as hierarchy they are refusing to acknowledge. Why is it do you think some people should work without health care at a wage considered fair for people determining what is fair who make far more and who have health care? Is there a first and second class citizen model I am missing somewhere? Do you think hiring a servant will allow them to traverse to your class and thus you are helping them or are you instead throwing bread to pigeons who if you ceased to do so would just fly away in search of new crumbs? Ultimately my view depends on the planned long term result of your actions and your argument is for the short term results inconsequential of the long term and we will find some common ground but the long term picture is much more important to me.

Your third point is also silly. You assume people doing whatever work offered want to do that without realizing that perhaps they would prefer to be the people doing your job and providing the opportunities you provide to others. Its really strange because I think most people doing it would aspire to not be at your position but to be better and to be more supportive but than if they attain it they usually don't regardless of their stated intentions.

Poor people are not more morally capable than rich people and neither really get what they would do if the roles were reversed.

People are just people. If you look at america though you will see who is control and their loyalties do not lie with the people but they lie with profit and with globalization. The power in america is being lost to profit of america and the most profit to be made is not here. Sure hiring a maid is better than working at foxconn and making iPads and you are paying them more to boot so pat yourself on the back.

I clean my own house. I lysol, dust, vacuum, make the beds, do the laundry, bathe the kids, cut the grass and if the roof is leaking I will fix it myself but if it needs to be replaced I will hire contractors who know how to do that and do it well and do it a fair cost. That means every person fixing my roof is insured and has health care and is making what I make an hour. Their going to spend 3 days working with 10 people than that is month worth of a pay and I will pay a months worth of pay if I know they are being paid like I am. If they are not than why support that?

This is where you might start rationalizing but ultimately I think everyone should contribute to society and they should do so in the way they are best able to. I think that contribution is directed and controlled by a few people able to recognize that talent and who seek to control it and direct it for their direct benefit and share some of that benefit with the people they are exploiting.

As stated if you have a servant cleaning your house and your are giving them the same medical and dental insurance you have and paying them similar to what you are making than you are acting pretty moral. If not that I think you see the work they provide as less than the work you provide and most of the time that is just semantic nonsense.
 
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LongGe123

Active Member
Your second point is false and rationalization. It relies upon a personal view on what people think fair compensation is and falls apart when compared to people who make billions a year compared to people who make minimum wage. Ultimately you added a lot of words for your own benefit and not for mine. I get people paying servants what they think is fair while getting paid far more and considering that fair as hierarchy they are refusing to acknowledge. Why is it do you think some people should work without health care at a wage considered fair for people determining what is fair who make far more and who have health care? Is there a first and second class citizen model I am missing somewhere? Do you think hiring a servant will allow them to traverse to your class and thus you are helping them or are you instead throwing bread to pigeons who if you ceased to do so would just fly away in search of new crumbs? Ultimately my view depends on the planned long term result of your actions and your argument is for the short term results inconsequential of the long term and we will find some common ground but the long term picture is much more important to me.

Your third point is also silly. You assume people doing whatever work offered want to do that without realizing that perhaps they would prefer to be the people doing your job and providing the opportunities you provide to others. Its really strange because I think most people doing it would aspire to not be at your position but to be better and to be more supportive but than if they attain it they usually don't regardless of their stated intentions.

People are just people. If you look at america though you will see who is control and their loyalties do not lie with the people but they lie with profit and with globalization. The power in america is being lost to profit of america and the most profit to be made is not here. Sure hiring a maid is better than working at foxconn and making iPads and you are paying them more to boot so pat yourself on the back.

I clean my own house. I lysol, dust, vacuum, make the beds, do the laundry, bathe the kids, cut the grass and if the roof is leaking I will fix it myself but if it needs to be replaced I will hire contractors who know how to do that and do it well and do it a fair cost. That means every person fixing my roof is insured and has health care and is making what I make an hour. Their going to spend 3 days working with 10 people than that is month worth of a pay and I will pay a months worth of pay if I know they are being paid like I am. If they are not than why support that?

This is where you might start rationalizing but ultimately I think everyone should contribute to society and they should do so in the way they are best able to. I think that contribution is directed and controlled by a few people able to recognize that talent and who seek to control it and direct it for their direct benefit and share some of that benefit with the people they are exploiting.

You know, just because you argue second, doesn't make your points any more rational. I think one reason you're not getting through to people, is this incredibly snidey and patronizing tone you magically weave into your responses. Why are my arguments really so "silly"? And more importantly, what makes YOU think that your arguments are really anything but ridiculous.

You're right, my first point was against the OP, which was fitting with my comment "From the OP until now".

As for the rest of your point, the major underlying flaw that I see in it is your gross generalization on the "guilty parties" as you evidently think of them as. Who says that it's only billionaires and the ultra rich who hire servants? Who says that hiring servants is always a full time thing? Your "nuanced" argument is nothing more than anti-capitalist rambling, which is fine if that's what we're talking about.

Me hiring a domestic worker does not make me a proponent or a supporter of a defined class (or even caste) system. Why would you assume that it does? If I twist my ankle while out running, and need someone to mow the lawn for a week, why shouldn't I pay someone else to do it for me? Your view on this is that "hiring servants" is only something done by ultra rich snobs who look down on the lowly workers as nothing more than a source of cheap labour. Why would you hold such an over-generalized and polarized view? I don't make that much money but I still use some of the money I have to hire people to do jobs for me that I either don't like doing or don't have the energy to do. And if there's someone willing to do those jobs then why shouldn't I pay them to do it? You can't just say "people have different ideas on fair compensation" and "you are just rationalizing" to brush aside my argument. The way I see it, you are the one using ill-founded arguments to rationalize YOUR point of view.

Hiring someone to do domestic work does not automatically mean you believe in there being such a thing as a lower class than you. For most people, it's just hiring someone to do something you either can't do, or don't really want to. But in your eyes, all people who do it are the same, unless they offer health insurance and a generous pension. Could you be any more unrealistic? And as I mention somewhere else in this post, not something we ever need to think about in Western Europe.

You seem to making statements against the super rich, against a class system, but that's not REALLY what this argument should be about. It's a perfectly basic premise. Me hiring a guy to come mow my lawn is no different from you hiring someone to come fix your roof. Are you telling me you'll actually ask a company if they give healthcare, pension, insurance etc before you agree to use them? If you do then good for you, but if we're talking about some guy coming to mow my lawn one day while I can barely walk, then is that REALLY something I have to think about? I'm not hiring the guy full time. You come from a society that for some reason doesn't believe in socialized health care. I on the other hand do. It's not really something we need to think about in Western Europe. So excuse me if I just want to pay someone to help me out.

Also, I would do my best to avoid hiring people who didn't really want the job, because the likelihood is that they won't do a good job on it. So what if you clean your own house and mow your lawn? I work really hard and don't want to have to do those things if I can avoid it. I have people willing to do it for me for a price, why shouldn't I accept? You still can't really tell me why I shouldn't say yes. You just keep telling me that I'm perpetuating some kind of moral evil against the working classes. You're painting EVERYONE as some kind of heartless billionaire exploiter. oiling the wheels of their profit making with peasant blood! Why on EARTH would you think that that's what most people are doing? That's utter nonsense.
 

Draka

Wonder Woman
Just to throw out a point here, but there are maid services. Companies which employ maids that are able to be hired out by people through said companies. The companies provide the workers with insurance and other benefits just like any other job. The maids go out on calls to different homes to clean and may have regular homes that they clean and may get paid by commission and so on. It is regular employment. Just like any other. Just like plumbers, landscapers, electricians, cable installers, or any other job where you work for one company and go out on calls and work at other people's homes. Why should maid service be considered any different?
 

Revoltingest

Pragmatic Libertarian
Premium Member
Sure but you are going to have to explain how in a capitalist society being lazy and rich is causing no harm. I present no argument for you to nitpick because you presented the argument that being lazy and rich is not harmful and as I see that obviously as false.....
Oh, no...the argument of obviousness! Curses...I'm foiled again.
To be lazy & rich imposes no burden upon others, since the relationships are voluntary.

you are looking to me to state why I stated that and abandoning your original argument. Which is just expected... maybe you drank too much that night? Who knows?
I don't recall abandoning anything. Now it's about drinking?
That doesn't inspire further response.
 
You know, just because you argue second, doesn't make your points any more rational. I think one reason you're not getting through to people, is this incredibly snidey and patronizing tone you magically weave into your responses. Why are my arguments really so "silly"?

Because I have people that do my lawn as stated and you miss my point entirely and react emotionally to an argument I didn't present?

Who says that it's only billionaires and the ultra rich who hire servants?

I am neither a billionaire or ultra rich so you are painting an argument you can argue with. It's not my argument but if someone did present that argument they are not here to defend themselves so ease up mate.

Who says that hiring servants is always a full time thing? Your "nuanced" argument is nothing more than anti-capitalist rambling, which is fine if that's what we're talking about.

Again what are you rambling about?

me said:
There are actually circumstances where some should enjoy luxury at the expense of others and that could be right.

You seem to be emotionally tied up and unable to comprehend my posts in this thread but I will try an easy american example.

If you hire a maid for 5 years while she is going to school to get a job which offers her healthcare and a retirement plan than that is probably a good thing right? You are helping her get to the same level of wealth you currently have and attain the same status you enjoy. (Like most Au pair services - you pay them, house them, let them use your car and pay for their education AND you treat them with respect.)

If on the other hand you hire a maid and treat her with respect for 15 years and pay her well but don't offer her a retirement plan, workers comp, paid vacation days or health care and neither do the other 12 families she works for then aren't they exploiting her inability to find a better job for their personal benefit? (What is she gets sick or someday wants to retire or her hands break down from doing manual labor every day and she is unable to work...)

In one instance you have a servant and its helpful and in the second you have a servant and you are enabling and taking advantage of someone who is basically a forever second class citizen. The situation has recently become exasperated by having a limited number of jobs and a very poor lower education system and a higher education system that is basically financially not feasible for most of america. 50% of americans own 1% of its wealth.

Its a complicated situation. Most people that work at walmart suffer the same fate and your argument seems to be well I pay them better than walmart and treat them better to boot so therefore I am doing something good for these people. My answer to that is more nuanced than you paint it and indeed just as some people might benefit from working at walmart or as a maid some people may not and may end up exploited.

Me hiring a domestic worker does not make me a proponent or a supporter of a defined class (or even caste) system.

Are you arguing with me or you?

Why would you assume that it does?

???

If I twist my ankle while out running, and need someone to mow the lawn for a week, why shouldn't I pay someone else to do it for me? Your view on this is that "hiring servants" is only something done by ultra rich snobs who look down on the lowly workers as nothing more than a source of cheap labour.

Clearly it's not.

Why would you hold such an over-generalized and polarized view?

Because its easier for you to argue with? (Even if it has nothing to do with what I am talking about it might make your responses look rational?)

I don't make that much money but I still use some of the money I have to hire people to do jobs for me that I either don't like doing or don't have the energy to do. And if there's someone willing to do those jobs then why shouldn't I pay them to do it? You can't just say "people have different ideas on fair compensation" and "you are just rationalizing" to brush aside my argument. The way I see it, you are the one using ill-founded arguments to rationalize YOUR point of view.

Probably because you don't see my point of view but are inventing a view you do see and assigning that view to me and than patting yourself on the back while you argue with yourself?


You come from a society that for some reason doesn't believe in socialized health care. I on the other hand do. It's not really something we need to think about in Western Europe. So excuse me if I just want to pay someone to help me out.

I also believe in socialized health care. (Why don't americans care enough about each other to insure a portion of whatever work they do goes to making sure other americans are not dying or suffering because they lack health insurance?)


Oh, no...the argument of obviousness! Curses...I'm foiled again.
To be lazy & rich imposes no burden upon others, since the relationships are voluntary.

This is a stupid argument and think you already get it. If not try to simplify. Imagine an island of 10. (Didn't we go through this?)

Lets say food spoils and needs to be grown anew and replanted as it is used up. 9 people work to this end because 1 person doesn't feel like doing it and owns all the homes his great grandfather made and forces the other 9 to provide him with food and back massages in order to live in the shelters made by his long dead relatives.

He owns shelters he didn't make but inherited. He does no work. He exists because he exploits others. Its simple. Being lazy and rich imposes a burden on others because he derives pleasure at the work of others.

Maybe some of the people would voluntarily work for him even if they didn't need the shelter but being lazy is not helping others and just being rich doesn't necessarily help anyone but does provide a certain measure of leverage.

Seriously does Zuckerberg leech off most people in the society he arose in to be rich and to enrich his own life or does he help them? Does a mother of 6 who never finished high school or ever worked help the society she exists in or does she leech off of them?

What if Zuckerberg than takes the billions he earned and donates its all to charity and spends the rest of his life enriching society? What if the mothers kids all grow up to be Zuckerbergs?
 

InfidelRiot

Active Member
If I could afford it, I would not. It is too close to slavery, even if the slave is willing and being paid, for me to be comfortable with it.
 

LongGe123

Active Member
If I could afford it, I would not. It is too close to slavery, even if the slave is willing and being paid, for me to be comfortable with it.

If they're being paid then they're employees - they're as close to slaves as any other employed person - this is a ridiculous comment
 

LongGe123

Active Member
This is a stupid argument and think you already get it. If not try to simplify. Imagine an island of 10. (Didn't we go through this?)
Lets say food spoils and needs to be grown anew and replanted as it is used up. 9 people work to this end because 1 person doesn't feel like doing it and owns all the homes his great grandfather made and forces the other 9 to provide him with food and back massages in order to live in the shelters made by his long dead relatives.

This example is contrived at best. And it makes no sense. Who built the houses for the guy's greatgrandfather? Why the assumption that if we had an island of 10 people, the organization would automatically end up like this? With 9 people doing everything and 1 doing nothing? If you're going to make an example like this, at least try one that makes even a little sense. Including "back massages" is exactly the kind of facetious detail I was referring to in your previous posts. You're arguments are based on your own ill-founded prejudices, but you prefer to tell everyone else that they are being over-emotional or erroneously rationalizing their own points.

He owns shelters he didn't make but inherited. He does no work. He exists because he exploits others. Its simple. Being lazy and rich imposes a burden on others because he derives pleasure at the work of others.

Maybe some of the people would voluntarily work for him even if they didn't need the shelter but being lazy is not helping others and just being rich doesn't necessarily help anyone but does provide a certain measure of leverage.

You're making a colossal leap in logic here. In the scenario you are describing, the one rich guy DOES exploit the others while he does nothing. He IS lazy and rich. But that is NOT what all people are like. I have said this to you many times, and you refuse to address this point. You can't paint everyone the same like that. This thread is about the idea that IF one had enough money, do they think it's WRONG to hire domestic workers. That's what we're talking about. Having money to hire people doesn't make you super rich. That was something I addressed before too but you brushed that aside.

Seriously does Zuckerberg leech off most people in the society he arose in to be rich and to enrich his own life or does he help them? Does a mother of 6 who never finished high school or ever worked help the society she exists in or does she leech off of them?

Explain how Zuckerberg is a "leech". And then link it to the debate itself which is still to do with whether or not it is inherently wrong to hire domestic workers.
 

LongGe123

Active Member
Work retail long enough, and you would feel like a veritable slave.

Wow, do you always presume you know this much about people? What exactly do you think you know about my work history? Here's a quick rundown

Age 12-14 - dish washer in hotel
Age 15-20 - waiter in hotel
Age 18-20 - bartender in hotel
Age 17-19 - clerk in a gas station
Age 19-26 - TESOL teacher
Age 19-23 - waiter/barman in one bar and one nightclub
Age 22-26 - editor/proofreader
Age 25-26 - Copywriter

You might wanna ask in future before assuming you know anything about the people you're judging.
 

Alceste

Vagabond
I have worked as a nanny for years. Only one family I worked for treated me like a "servant". The father was from England, and a bit of a social climber (people are generally more preoccupied with social class over there than they are on this side of the pond). Our deal was that I would live in their house and receive room and board (no pay) in exchange for a small amount of child care (a few hours a week). I wasn't there three weeks before I had to have a sit down with my "boss" and explain the market value of my services, the market value of the room, and insist that he not require more than about ten hours a week of my time. Until then, they were banging on my door day and night, bossing me around at all times and generally treating me like a non-human. Of course his children (6 and 9) were uncontrollable, since they took his lead, talked down to me (tried to, anyway), wouldn't listen and ran to him to back them up every time I tried to get them to do something they didn't want to do. When I insisted on his upholding this arrangement (which was pretty much what we had agreed to before I moved in), he kicked me out.

Never again. It was awful. I would NEVER treat anyone that way, and I will NEVER work for anybody who treats people that way again. I have also done gardening and house cleaning. There's nothing wrong with hiring people to help when you're overwhelmed or not sure what you're doing. I do it myself (I hired a friend to haul manure and prune the apple trees this year). I'm reasonably good at whatever I do, and if I am treated with respect and adequately compensated I'll keep doing it.

There is enough demand for domestic and landscape workers where I live that there's no reason for anybody to have to work for anyone who doesn't treat them with respect, unless they're really crappy at their job and can't get any word of mouth happening.
 
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LongGe123

Active Member
I was not making assumptions about anyone. I was simply telling the truth about retail.

no, you were assuming that I had no experience in retail (probably in servvice either), and so the statement came out. the fact i called you on it is not an excuse to backtrack
 
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