What would you determine as personhood? How would that be legally established and enforced?
I'm not sure. That's a very philosophical question and I'm not a philosopher. I guess I'd go with when the heart starts to beat. I would say fertilization, but you're asking for a legal definition. Personally, I say fertilization. But legally, I'll go with the first heartbeat.
Do you agree with the push to hold women liable for miscarriages if personhood and fetal death is as tragic? How well will policies such as that go over?
I'm not aware of any such push and it sounds like a ridiculous strawman.
What you see as protecting "life" I see as horribly draconian efforts to hold women's reproductive systems hostage.
Which efforts, specifically, do you see as "draconian"? Late-term abortion bans? Parental notification laws? ???
Owning my uterus and deciding what my body is going to go through isn't selfish unless it's assumed I owe the use of my body to somebody else. Men have a level of bodily autonomy that believe women are entitled to as well. Men aren't thought of as selfish if they don't want to offer a single cell of their body to maintain or save a life. Why say that about women?
No one said you can't own your body. But when you're pregnant, it's not just about you anymore. You have a human being that depends on you for survival now. They are not a "parasite". We now know that pregnancy offers women certain health benefits such as decreased breast and ovarian cancer risk, among others:
6 Surprising Benefits of Pregnancy
3 Health Benefits of Being Pregnant | Pregnancy Blog
The unexpected benefits of pregnancy - Telegraph
They are not mere "lumps of tissue/lumps of cells", either. Would you have wanted your mother to think of you that way while you were in the womb? Did you think of your children that way while they were inside of you?
Also, only females are capable of having a womb and carrying a child. Males and females are not the same. Equal, but with distinctions and differing responsibilities. Both have a responsibility to be sexually responsible, respectful and supportive of each other. Part of this sexual responsibility is to do all that you can to prevent unwanted pregnancies. There's a plethora of various methods that can be used: abstinence, celibacy (does anyone even know what those are anymore?
), non-vaginal sex, "casual sex", condoms, prescription birth control, choosing your partners wisely, etc. etc. I don't understand what it is so difficult in keeping yourself from not getting pregnant if you want to. We've had close to 60 million abortions in America since it was legalized. That is breathtaking in its astonishing ability to reveal how disgusting we are as a culture.
Nowhere did I say that only women are selfish. Both men and women are equally selfish, as a whole. In fact, men who sire children should be forced to care for them and to care for the mother, legally. Deadbeat dads should face strict penalties. This sort of selfishness on both sides of the sex divide is one of the reasons why the West is experiencing plummeting birth rates and native Western Europeans are going to go extinct soon if they don't start having loads of more babies (and taking care of them).
I still maintain that anti choice people are seeing reproductive rights with an extremely sexist lens. "Women owe their bodies for____" has been argued for all kinds of measures that have shamed, coerced, harassed, and forced women into giving up self agency over their own bodies. From unwanted pregnancies to restricted access to birth control to rape, women standing for ownership of their bodies face rhetoric like this.
Oh, please. Don't hit me with that 2nd and 3rd wave feminist spin. That's just strawmanning and isn't conducive to having an actual dialogue that has a hope of being constructive.
I, and all the other pro-lifers I know have never called women who have had an abortion such things. My oldest sister has had one or two abortions but I've never said anything about it to her and don't think such things about her. My mother considered aborting me, actually (thank God she changed her mind and cancelled the appointment).
Honestly, I've experienced vitriol from the pro-abort crowd. You yourself are insinuating that I'm some woman-hating sexist. Also, when I've been to pro-life Chain of Life demonstrations, we've been flipped off and called things like "Nazis!". (Ironically, most of the people taking part in those demos were mothers with their children, teenage girls and young women; there weren't many males there.)
Time to stop this and respect women who take ownership of their own bodily security.
You go, girl! Sisterhood is powerful!