I understand what you are saying. I can follow the distinction you are making between ID and the position taken by a YEC'er. I appreciate your position.
Let me help you understand mine, a little more clearly.
No matter how you spin it, ID is a completely unfalsifiable concept, which is nothing more than creationism, dressed in secular clothing.
You have gone to great lengths to quote a handful of scientists that embrace it, as a blatant appeal to authority. I don't care if Albert Einstein himself had been a devout proponent of ID - it still isn't science, it never will be science, and no amount of "spinning" can change that fact.
In my opinion, anyone that claims that the designer isn't the God of the Abrahamic faiths is simply lying, in an attempt to obscure their true intention.