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Should same sex marriage be legal?

Evangelicalhumanist

"Truth" isn't a thing...
Premium Member
Well so do people who support Churches who marry men and women only.
And therefore, it should be obvious, everybody should pay their taxes, and everybody should leave everybody else alone (assuming no harm, of course).

On the other hand, though, it ought to be mentioned that those churches all are entitled to pretty generous tax breaks, and yet are privileged to discriminate in any way they see fit. Sound fair to you?
 

BSM1

What? Me worry?
And therefore, it should be obvious, everybody should pay their taxes, and everybody should leave everybody else alone (assuming no harm, of course).

On the other hand, though, it ought to be mentioned that those churches all are entitled to pretty generous tax breaks, and yet are privileged to discriminate in any way they see fit. Sound fair to you?


Unfortunately, yes. If we start deciding what each religion can and cannot accept we open up a whole new can of night crawlers...
 

Cooky

Veteran Member
When did the State do that? I would like to see the ruling by the state.

Well that's what some posters here are actually advocating... That the Catholic Church either marry same sex couples, or they lose their legal right to marry entirely, as in Catholic marriages performed by clergymen would no longer be accepted as legally binding by the State.

I think it's a bad idea.
 

sooda

Veteran Member
Well that's what some posters here are actually advocating... That the Catholic Church either marry same sex couples, or they lose their legal right to marry entirely, as in Catholic marriages performed by clergymen would no longer be accepted as legally binding by the State.

I think it's a bad idea.

Those posters are idiots. Don't take the bait.
 

julianalexander745

Active Member
Does it, though?

What would be the problem with a government saying something like this?

Anyone licensed to be a marriage officiant will have to agree not to discriminate. Your priests/ministers/whatnot won't be forced to be licensed, but if they aren't licensed, then any "marriages" they perform won't have legal weight.

I don't know. I guess it just totally ignores and arguably discriminates against those who believe that marriage should only be between a man and a woman.
 

Vouthon

Dominus Deus tuus ignis consumens est
Premium Member
I say yes. I am bisexual, and see no reason to say otherwise.

Yes, in my opinion same-sex marriage should be legally available in every country. I have attended a gay wedding before and I had a rare time. It was beautiful.

No one is harmed by gay people exercising their right to have longstanding, romantic, stable relationships - which may also involve children, adopted or otherwise - recognised by the state (anymore than one is by heterosexuals!) on equal terms with straight couples. I can think of no meaningful objection to it that does not stem from, really, homophobia. (Indeed, I think gay marriage is actually a net positive for society and can provide yet more stable relationships for children to be raised in / families started and for orphans to find a loving home).

On the other hand, equally, I believe that religious believers - adhering to orthodox traditions like Catholicism, Eastern Orthodoxy, Orthodox Judaism, Sunni & Shia Islam, Baha'i - should also have their right to a sacramental / halachic / halal marriage between opposite-sex partners, in accordance with their doctrinal beliefs, protected by law.

One freedom should not be used to deny another freedom - both gay rights and religious freedom are sacrosanct.
 
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Cooky

Veteran Member
Yes, in my opinion same-sex marriage should be legally available in every country. I have attended a gay wedding before and I had a rare time. It was beautiful.

No one is harmed by gay people exercising their right to have longstanding, romantic , stable relationships - sometimes now with children, adopted or otherwise - recognised by the state. I can think of no meaningful objection to it that does not stem from, really, homophobia.

On the other hand, equally, I believe that religious believers - adhering to orthodox traditions, like Catholicism, Eastern Orthodoxy, Orthodox Judaism, Sunni & Shia Islam, Baha'i - should also have their right to a sacramental / halachic / halal marriage between opposite-sex partners, in accordance with their doctrinal beliefs, protected by law.

One freedom should not be used to deny another freedom - both gay rights and religious freedom are sacrosanct.

That seems like a well balanced and healthy solution for any society.
 
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