Although I agree with alot of what you have to say, I think the main problem is that people often believe that God is like humans. The Universe/God has laws. Without these laws nothing could exist. So in the sense of someone getting ran over by the truck; The truck had to follow the same laws at all time. To make exceptions would be chaotic. It might seem like a small thing to change, but the laws are setup to keep all things in balance. Not to mention, one human death to a infinite Universe/God means very little. Just a thought...
Well, I understand and appreciate your point but disagree.
I do think one human death in an infinite universe means a lot, but that is because I have a subjective value for sentient, feeling life. I can't rationally explain that value besides through some kind of categorical or hypothetical imperative... nothing really set in stone.
Also, it isn't a big deal to set up laws such that they cause no physical harm to sentient life. It does sound chaotic but it is in principle predictable: for instance, if any time a sharp edge would cut a sentient being's skin it lost its inertia, that would just be one more law scientists could add to the book of stuff they observe about the universe.
It's sort of like a chess analogy I like. Richard Feynman compared studying physics to someone (who doesn't know the rules of chess) watching people play chess in a park.
They'll figure out the most obvious "laws" of the chess universe real quick: bishops move diagonally, rooks move horizontally, queens both, etc.
However once certain conditions are met, they'll observe something that seems to break the "laws of chess." For instance, after noting the above laws, they decide to try their luck against someone who empties part of their back row during some turns, perfectly obeying the apparent "laws of chess." But then something strange happens -- the opponent moves their king and their rook at the same time, with the pieces passing through one another! (Castling)
Were the laws of chess broken? Of course not, our observer just didn't understand ALL the rules of chess -- yet.
So, likewise, in a universe where there are special rules to protect sentient beings from physical suffering, it might be confusing at first but over time those rules can be learned and made predictable, too. I see nothing wrong with that scenario. An omnipotent/omniscient/omnibenevolent being
could do such a thing.