That's kinda the point I'm making. And those who insert the word fetus into non legal/scientific language where a person would normally say baby, are disassociating themselves from what an abortion does.
I disagree. Everyone knows what occurs during abortion, but it’s important to base decisions on (and indeed discuss issues using) logic, sound reason and rationality. Terms like “baby” or even “child” defeat the purpose of reasonable discussion because they are not only colloquial in nature, they are emotionally charged monikers. Terms that might not be entirely scientifically accurate, depending on which stage of the pregnancy is being discussed. For example a zygote is at best a potential future baby. But it is is not scientifically equal to a baby. This is just a medical fact. To label it as a child or baby is misleading and inaccurate, relying on emotional language rather than discussing the facts.
My sex education was very thorough and very explicit (at least going by the reactions to those on this website when I laid out what was discussed.) So based on what (little) I know about the stages of pregnancy, I know that terms like fetus, embryo, zygote are far more appropriate when discussing what is in actuality a medical procedure. Now if you personally feel that the procedure is taking a life, then that’s your right and you’re entitled to your opinion. I personally find abortion to be “sinful.” But at the same time, having a child can also in certain circumstances be considered “sinful.” And not for the reason of wedlock either.
But anyway, the term “life” when used colloquially and indeed spiritually/religiously doesn’t equate to the scientific definition. Which can in certain circumstances include things such as cancer, depending on which scientist you ask.
So we do not use words like “life” in the discussion, it is too emotionally and religiously charged. It gets people easily derailed. We need to stick to the facts and that might sound cold, but it’s the best way to have a proper discussion, even if the subject matter is distasteful or uncomfortable. More important in such circumstances, imo
I know someone personally who had a medical issue which caused her baby to be born prematurely at 26 weeks. He spent the first month or more (I don't remember exactly) in NICU, but he's about 11 years old now. Most abortions (~90%) occur in the first 12 weeks. The rest don't.
Late term abortion (which I sense that’s what your really hinting at) is indeed incredibly unfortunate. But will only occur in extreme medical emergencies. Like the skull not being developed causing the brain to literally fall out or extremely painful medical conditions which will only cause unnecessary suffering and an agonising death for the fetus among others. That’s why they should always be between the mother and doctor. Regardless of our personal feelings, those are just the facts of reality and we have no choice but to acknowledge them. Well you could bury your hand in the sand I suppose. But who does that help?