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colors your eyes with what's not there
I disagree. Everyone knows what occurs during abortion, but it’s important to base decisions on (and indeed discuss issues using) logic, sound reason and rationality. Terms like “baby” or even “child” defeat the purpose of reasonable discussion because they are not only colloquial in nature, they are emotionally charged monikers.
Are we having a reasonable discussion? I think so. I hope you think so too. The point at which I entered this thread was to discuss my pregnancy terminology, and my knowledge pregnant women who don't use the word fetus in discussing their pregnancies. The term fetus, outside of a legal/scientific usage, is the term preferred by proponents and providers of abortion.
Why do you think the term baby is too emotionally charged for a reasonable discussion? I'm genuinely curious.
To label it as a child or baby is misleading and inaccurate, relying on emotional language rather than discussing the facts.
What label would you use at 26 weeks gestation?
Now if you personally feel that the procedure is taking a life, then that’s your right and you’re entitled to your opinion. I personally find abortion to be “sinful.” But at the same time, having a child can also in certain circumstances be considered “sinful.” And not for the reason of wedlock either.
But anyway, the term “life” when used colloquially and indeed spiritually/religiously doesn’t equate to the scientific definition. Which can in certain circumstances include things such as cancer, depending on which scientist you ask.
I agree that in a legal/scientific context, legal/scientific language is appropriate. However, the claim that no one says "expectant mother" is just wrong, and the idea that the vast majority of pregnant women speak of their pregnancy in legal/scientific terms is also wrong. They know they're having a baby. But emotionally, for a lot of women (not all, to be sure), calling it a fetus removes them to a distance from it that they can deal with.
So we do not use words like “life” in the discussion, it is too emotionally and religiously charged. It gets people easily derailed. We need to stick to the facts and that might sound cold, but it’s the best way to have a proper discussion, even if the subject matter is distasteful or uncomfortable. More important in such circumstances, imo
I'm not changing the way I have a discussion, but you seem reasonable and I'll continue with you if you like.
Late term abortion (which I sense that’s what your really hinting at) is indeed incredibly unfortunate. But will only occur in extreme medical emergencies. Like the skull not being developed causing the brain to literally fall out or extremely painful medical conditions which will only cause unnecessary suffering and an agonising death for the fetus among others. That’s why they should always be between the mother and doctor. Regardless of our personal feelings, those are just the facts of reality and we have no choice but to acknowledge them. Well you could bury your hand in the sand I suppose. But who does that help?
Later abortions don't "only occur in extreme medical emergencies." That's an overstatement that's not supported by even the pro-choice Guttmacher Institute.
People sometimes choose to terminate a pregnancy because of fetal medical conditions or because the pregnancy poses a threat to their health; these diagnoses can be received throughout pregnancy.
And, from an older Guttmacher paper (2009)
While a small proportion of women who have abortions do so because of health concerns or fetal anomalies, the large majority choose termination in response to an unintended pregnancy.
That paper's survey was populated by 85% of respondents at less than 12 weeks gestation, 15% at more than 12 weeks gestation.
I like the last para of that paper though, because it gets to the crux and the solution:
Although the focus of this study was women’s reasons for having abortions, our findings have broader implications regarding the burden of unwanted pregnancy and the need for increased access to and use of contraceptive services. Better access to emergency contraception, for example, could lead to a reduction in unintended pregnancy, a decrease in the national abortion rate and, on the individual level, a decline in the number of women confronted with the difficult decision of how to resolve an unwanted pregnancy. The fact that an increasing proportion of women having abortions are poor underscores the importance of public assistance for family planning programs as an effective means of reducing the incidence of both unintended pregnancy and abortion.