See our discussion, I called it spacetime countless times. I already took back my word dillate from his nit pickiness.
The problem wasn't that you said "space" instead of spacetime. It's that you separated gravity from space/space-time and described it as something that affects or does something
to space. Gravitation
IS the curvature/curving/bending of space/space-time. It DOES NOT bend space or space-time. The issue isn't one of terminology, but a fundamental conceptual distinction.
To say that gravity bends space-time is to say that there exists some "force", entity, process, or whatever that
does something to space-time. You describe the way this "gravity" acts on/exerts influence on/affects space-time as "bending". But there isn't anything that exists which does this.
Put simply, gravitation doesn't bend space-time, gravitation itself IS the bending of space-time.
Nor was the use of the term "dilate" the issue I had with your description of relativistic affects. You are trying to conceptualize a quantum mechanical process via classical relativistic mechanics and in doing so you are misconstruing AND (far more importantly) misunderstanding/inaccurately conceptualizing BOTH. You've made this connection between nonlocality/entanglement in QM and concepts from special relativity before. You are misleading yourself by these connections. The fact that there appears to be some surface similarity between these concepts to you hides the fundamental distinctions that actually exist. In order to get quantum systems to behave relativistically we have to describe them as fundamentally different entities acting in fundamentally different ways, and a lot of processes from quantum mechanics, electromagnetism, classical mechanics, and special relativity disappear, from chaos (quantum systems do not exhibit chaotic dynamics we see even in Newtonian mechanics) to waves to particles and even to the so-called wave-particle duality of quantum mechanics. The structure of spacetime changes in relativistic quantum physics and the structure, nature, even existence of quantum systems do as well (relativistic quantum physics, for example, requires the ability for the creation and annihilation of particles, "particles" are not really even approximately particle-like nor wave-like but are fields that may or may not be real and if they are they may not be physical but could be e.g., the mediation of some force).